Now a days I don't understand   Why my love doesn't love me like she used to before   Now lately the sun just doesn't shine   And my paradise is gone      'Cause most of the time we argue and fight   Over things that doesn't really matter   Lord knows that I tried to give all my love   So what should I do?      You got to understand   It's all about give and take   You can't be so demanding   Things won't always go your way      If you just give it time   And think about her feelings   Then things will work out fine   Learn to make her your best friend      I hear what you saying but my girl she's always complaining   And blaming me for things I'll never do   And I don't know what, what it is that I did that was so wrong   To make her feel I'll ever be untrue to her      'Cause most of the time we argue and fight   Over things that doesn't really matter   Lord knows that I tried to give all my love to her   What should I do?      You got to understand   It's all about give and take   You can't be so demanding   Things won't always go your way      If you'll just give it time   And think about her feelings   Then things will work out fine   Learn to make her your best friend      See what you need to do is   Stop catching attitude's   And just try to take the time   To hear her out      Stop being so defensive   And try to be more attentive   To show her you respect   What she's talkin' 'bout      'Cause you know how us women can be, yes   And when we feel threatened we react instinctively, yeah   When our emotions have grown to it's high   We can tend to just let it control our lives      Well, all right, I'll try next time I'll try a little tenderness   Even make sure that I give her more complements   Maybe I could practice on being more patient   And compromise for my baby, yeah yeah      If you want her in your life   Then you got to be willing to try   See it's worth the struggle 'cause in the end   She will always be your best friend, yeah      If you want her in your life   Then you got to be willing to try   See it's worth the struggle 'cause in the end   She will always be your best friend, yeah