It hits when I set the table or when I turn out the lights   And I don't hear a voice that whispers goodnight   It hits when I'm in the backyard and the summer sky smells like rain   Small things like that make memories come back again      Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed   And telling myself I had so much time losing you never crossed my mind   Shame on me I thought the way that it was   Was how it would always be to love someone so carelessly   Shame on me      I'm taking more time for sunsets and the sound of the birds at dawn   'Cause I know how it feels to miss what's gone   It hits when I'm out with old friends and I hear them speak your name   Oh how I wish there was somebody else to blame      Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed   And telling myself I had so much time losing you never crossed my mind   Shame on me it thought the way that it was   Was how it would always be to love someone so carelessly   Shame on me      Oh I loved you so carelessly   Shame on me