Oh, Oh  I'm not missing you  Been through just about everything that I could go through  When it comes to relationships  Don't know what I was missing or why I ain't listen  When I told myself that was it  Now here I go, hurt again  Cause of my curiosity  Now that its over  What else could it be he just had to cheat    I made a promise never to settle  Why didn't I keep it?  'Cause I hated the heartbreak  Crying and cheating, the fooling around    [Chorus:]  (But) I'm not missing you  I'm not going through the motions  Waiting and hoping you call me  I'm not missing you  You might have had me open  But I must be going because  I got life to do  I know I'm usually hanging on  I used to hate to see you gone  But this time its different  I don't even feel the distance  I'm not missing  I'm not missing you    Its a shame in a way cause  I feel that I may not ever find the right one for me  Did I leave him, is he right in front of my face oh  Will my true love ever be?  Why would I go on a search again  When I know what the end will be  What good is love when it keeps on hurting me?    I made a promise never to settle  Why didn't I keep it?  'Cause I hated the heartbreak  Crying and cheating, the fooling around    [Chorus x2]    No I can't be with you  Cause I'm scared felt like I was falling when you left me  I can't keep going through life  Unaware of what I missed  And the person I could be  Love's good when its right  And when it's left in your memory  All the times I let you down  I guess love will be nice for someone else's life    [Chorus]    (But) I'm not missing you  I'm not going through the motions  Waiting and hoping you call me  (I'm not missing you)  You might have had me open  But I must be going because  (I got life to do)  I know I'm usually hanging on  I used to hate to see you gone  (I used to hate it)  Oh different, oh see the distance  I'm not missing  I'm not missing you    I'm not going through the motions  Waiting and hoping you call me (knockin' at my door)  You might have had me open  But I must be going because  I know I'm usually hanging on  I used to hate to see you gone  Oh different, feel the distance  I'm not missing  I'm not missing you    I'm not missing  I'm not missing you(yeah, oooh)  I'm not missing you (oh baby)  I'm not missing you