Yeah, a lot a mysteries, a lot a histories   Too much blowin' up and showin' up, and not enough growin' up   I mean it happens, people change, yeah   A brother changes everyday but ah, most of all we changed      Sometimes makin' up is easier than breakin' up   We believe if we just fake it enough   We can trick ourselves into believing   That we're still in love      But in our hearts we know that it's inevitable   Though it's hard to let you go I know I must   Sometimes memories just ain't enough   Sometimes you out grow the ones you love      Sometimes it's none of the above   It's just a fact that people change      No one's to blame   There ain't nothing that stays the same   So we sit around an cry because neither one of us   Wants to be the first to say goodbye      Sometimes giving second chances is easier than dealing with the fact   That once the trust is gone you can never get it back   But you're holding on because you're afraid of being alone   So here you are holding on to something that's already gone      And don't act like it's the first time you've heard it in this song   'Cause your heart done told you all along   If your momma done showed you right from wrong   Nothing should hold you down this long      There's no one to blame   Nothing stays the same   So we sit around an cry because neither one of us   Wants to be the first to say goodbye, bye, my love, oh      So let me be first to say goodbye