I notice you ain't been around lately   I recognize there's a sudden change   I notice you haven't been calling me   I'm starting to see that things are not the same   Lately I've been reaching out to you   Boy, you haven't been returning my calls   Even when I say I love you   I notice there's been a slight pause      Can you tell me what you think it could be?   Headache, tired, or cheating on me?   I'm tired of this up and down mystery   Please answer questions from one to three      Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheating?   Ooh, ladies, help me out   Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheating?   Said I'm tired of all these ups and downs   Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheating?   Fellas, tell me what you think   Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheating?   Here's the reason why I ask these things      I was giving him the best of me   But my best must not be good enough   I'm telling you I would do anything   Talk about a woman who loves tough      And now he's coming home real, real late   I let him know it's starting to bother me   He never once even touched his plate   And no response, he just went to sleep      Can you tell me what you think it could be?   Headache, tired, or cheating on me?   I'm tired of this up and down mystery   Please answer questions from one to three      Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheating?   Ooh, ladies, help me out   Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheating?   Said I'm tired of all these ups and downs   Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheating?   Fellas, tell me what you're thinking, yeah   Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheating?   Can you see why I ask these things      Used to take me shopping (all the time)   Used to go club hopping (all the time)   Where you were I would be (all the time)   Now all you do is leave me (behind, boy)   I used to be your best friend (remember?)   We were close like cousins (remember?)   Used to give me loving (and now)   All you're doing is trippin'      Can you tell me what you think it could be?   Headache, tired, or cheating on me?   I'm tired of this up and down mystery   Please answer questions from one to three      Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheating?   Tell me fellas   Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheating?   Cheatin' on me, gotta know   Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheating?   Ladies, gotta ask yourselves sometimes   Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheating?   Gotta know, gotta know