~Talking~  The problems I think with most relationships is that..  We take each other for granted  Me and my girlfriends talk about this all the time  There's one in particular she's been in her relationship  For three years and she feels like she's not getting 100%  You know it's give, give, give, and get nothing in return  But I just told her...  It ain't gone get no better until you take control  See girlfriend if you let him, let him he'll try and take your soul  But tell him, HELL NO, it ain't goin down like that  And tell him as a matter of fact things around here are gone change  And if he wants you then he gone have to give you his best  You ain't gone take nothing less, tell him it's a brand new day  So be a man and..  Step up, you gotta let him know that you're fed up  Don't let him hold you down time to get up  I tell you it's the only way, only way so don't you  Let up it's all about you so hold your head up  And if you can't get it right it's time to shake up  Child it's the only way  See what is is is....  He's taking you for granted you let it be that way  Now you must make him listen. listen   To you when you say ,hell no, HELL NO it ain't going down like that  And tell him as a matter of fact things around here are gone change  And if he wants you then he gone have to give you his best  You ain't gone take nothing less tell him it's a brand new day  So be a man and...  Step up you got to let him know that you're fed up  Don't let him hold you down time to get up  I tell you it's the only way, only way so don't you  Let up it's all about you so hold your head up  And if you can't get it right it's time to shake up   Child it's the