Performed by: Debbie Gibson  Written by: Deborah Gibson  What happened to the love we made?  We used to be so good together  And life was just a big parade  And kisses lingered like forever  Now we argue and we fight  It doesn't feel like the middle of the night  When love was all around  CHORUS:  How Can This Be?  Did you lose your heart along the way  Or did I lose me / When you got lost in me  Now the rain comes down, the sun has gone  And I don't know how this can be  The same hearts that were so free  How Can This Be?  I want so bad to feel so good  I don't think we have reached our limit  I just know I don't wanna have  A single dream if you're not in it  I've grown accustomed to your face  I've grown to love you more each passing day  When did this laughter turn to pain?  CHORUS  Toy soldiers falling down  I thought we were on solid ground  Is anyone ever?  Can we sacrifice forever?  Or is the pain to much to bear  Without you in my life forever...