someone should tell you, the bridges most often travelled are the soonest to collapse. and whether structural or hereditary, those same bridges, once fallen or falling, take many down with them. and that every Casagemas must eventually say "ive had enough of this life and this love." every Casagemas whispers himself to sleep with "tomorrow is the end, i have had my-- i have had my fill."       Waiting too long to say what you mean and to give looks their intentions. Compact fire into undesired space will only explode.