Len Stauffenger's parents taught him life's simple wisdom. As a divorced dad, he wanted to share that simple wisdom with his girls. "Getting Over It: Wisdom for Divorced Parents", his book, is the solution. Len is a Reiki Master, an author, a Success Coach and an Attorney.
Divorce Hurts. Individual Responsibility Heals. Just sit with it and it will run its course. Divorce is painful, but you dont need to allow blame, guilt, or embarrassment to continue forever if you will permit yourself some self-discovery... Source : After Divorce Pg. 5
Divorce Actually Helps You Discover The I Of You Wow! Can you see our worlds paradigm switching from leaning on others, entitlement, toward enjoyment and self-sufficiency. Now then, are you seeing your divorce in a warmer, lighter view?... Source : After Divorce Pg. 5
Little Ears Are Listening...And Cringing. I encourage you to work on making improvements to prevent further mistakes, and your kids will surely enjoy that benefit, which is, after all, most important. You dont get a do-over with them... Source : Health Tips Pg. 354
Guilty! You will be rewarded, more than you can imagine. And well feel better knowing that we helped you become a second divorce statistic, because these numbers are even higher than the first... Source : Health Tips Pg. 354
When You Badmouth Your Ex Theyll get it. Just dont make it harder on them with your unkind, critical words about their other parent. Dont badmouth your ex where your children might hear you... Source : Health Tips Pg. 356
The Courage To Persevere With Great Parenting Only you will know of all the times when you set yourself aside to care for them, of all those hundreds of details you handled to be a good parent, and you wont be able to help those escaping tears....... Source : Health Tips Pg. 357
This Cant Be Happening To Me! You were mighty tempted to believe that you would not survive it. You are surviving. You are thriving. The marriage between you might be dead, but you are not. You are living... Source : Health Tips Pg. 384
Dont Make Your Child The Messenger See if you can live with that. Also, if you really want to be honest within yourself, summon up the courage that is in there just waiting to be exercised. Ask your ex yourself... Source : Health Tips Pg. 386
Custody Over Christmas? Custody over the holidays can be shared with both parents without making the children suffer. When they are children, allow them to be children... Source : Health Tips Pg. 388
After A Weekend With Your Ex Be generous. You have zero to lose by being generous and by not grilling your kids for data, because generosity will generate a lot more good for you. Divorce is tough enough without that... Source : Health Tips Pg. 388
