1. Trust Your Instincts



No one knows your spouse better than you. Beyond paranoia, sometimes you have to learn to trust your instincts. If things do not seem right between you and your spouse there may be a reason for that. At this point if you have an open relationship you should be able to talk to them to help get rid of your suspicions.

2. Remember Our Sex Life

A definite sign that a spouse may be cheating on you is changes in their sexual desire. If you notice a change in your sex life then it is possible your spouse is getting sex elsewhere. The flipside is if your spouse suddenly seems more adventurous and wanting to experiment with new things.

3. You Sure Look Nice Today

If you find yourself repeating this phrase more often than in the past you may want to consider the reason why. Is your spouse have a reason for wanting to look more presentable, possibly losing weight or dressing up more often. Along those lines is your spouse taking more showers than normal. This could be a sign that they want to hide the evidence.

4. Trying To Justify

Many times if the spouse is cheating, they may begin to try to justify their behavior. They could start to become more critical of you, which is the way of them justifying in their own mind what they're doing is okay. You may notice that you're receiving more gifts or are being treated more nicely, which could be a result of them feeling more guilty about what they are doing.

5. I'm Working Late Again

If you find your spouse is spending more time to work after hours than they used to you need to figure out why. It's possible that they been asked to do more at work. But it's also possible that they're not even at work or that the person that they're cheating with is someone from work.

6. That's Not Mine

If you start feeling that you're saying the words that's not my hair, smell of perfume, lipstick, or other things you notice that are not yours, you need to question who's is it. That's a definite sign that you're spouse may be cheating on you. Other things, include expenses that would normally not be on your credit card card including eating out, condoms, long-distance phone calls and presents.

This is just sick signs you may have a cheating spouse. There certainly can be other signs, but really, it all starts with you trusting your instincts. If you have any doubts confront your spouse and get everything out in the open as soon as possible.