Tip 1 : How have you been confident in the past?



Spend some time every day thinking about how you've been confident in the past and what it felt like to be that confident. Just remember those feelings and let them flow through your body.

Tip 2 : Listen to or watch uplifting, inspiring and positive things

You get what you focus on, so if you focus on self confidence then you well get more of it! Read books that inspire you and make you feel confident, watch films or television shows that make you feel great, listen to music that inspires you and makes you feel full of life. These will all help you feel more self confident. The more you surround yourself with this sort of material the more you will feel confident.

Tip 3 : Surround yourself with positive people

Often people are low on confidence because the people around them put them down and dent their self-confidence. You tend to be like the people who you spend the most time with. Find yourself more friends who are confident and spend time with them. They will pick you up and make you feel more confident in yourself

Tip 4 : Visualise your self confidence

Spend time imagining yourself in situations and being confident. After doing this for a while you will find that you naturally become more confident in these situations without even having to try.

Tip 5 : Look on the bright side

Things are going to happen that will set you back, it's a fact of life. Instead of feeling bad about them and getting down, look for the bright side of them and interpret them in a more positive and uplifting way. This will keep your confidence high. There is always something to learn and feel good about - even if it is just learning not to do that again!

Tip 6 : Take action

So many people want something like more confidence, more money or to be fitter, but they leave this step out. They just want the self confidence to appear magically with no effort on their part. It may happen this way for you, but it's highly unlikely. It's up to you to take action and make the confidence come into your life. Apply the tips from this article and you will find that your confidence will increase. Consistent action will lead to success. Consistent and massive action will lead to massive self confidence quicker than you may think.