Attraction insinuates lust; or does it? Women do lust I've heard just like men. It's hard to imagine isn't it? Attraction can consist of many things and knowing what makes you attractive, or let's say captivating, is what you need to figure out. Attraction varies for the woman looking for Mr. Right. Imagine for a moment that we are in a contest. We need to dress attractive to get the attention of the opposite sex. You have to have an edge on the competition so what is your secret?



One of the first things we need to consider is our way of dressing. Even men need makeovers once in a while, so it never hurts to do the research. We may have to ask our sisters, or there girl friends what would they change on us that might make us more appealing or attractive. If you do this, you need to have an open mind and not get offended at their answers; some of them will be shocking. Some of the things we learn will definitely take us out of our comfort zone!

Maybe we need to quit trying that comb over of our bald spot and get real! Look around, do other men have a nice looking female on their arm and have a half bald head? It's not that unusual to be handsome and be balding on our heads. Get used to it and practice confidence and act naturally! We can find the colors that accent our body shapes and make us look thinner if were toting a bit more weight than our height says we should have. There are colors we are going to look better in and others we should stay away from. Also, dress like your young. If when you dress you always wear clothes that emulate a senior citizen then, you are not dressing for success.

When we go out, attraction can be our body language. Attraction can start with the way we present ourselves. Crude language, spitting on the sidewalk, picking your nose or acting like Michael Jackson and grabbing yourself in front is not most women's idea of attractive! It doesn't quite cut it with the opposite sex. Attractions can be reversed very fast with the wrong body language.

How is your vocabulary, do you talk gentlemanly or are you rough and simple. Do you address people with young lady or young man, no sir or is it a few yeas and no's in a gruff tone of voice? Sometimes our overall education can come out with just a few simple gestures and negative language habits. Attraction can be a positive spirit in us, or as they say, he's an optimist! If we walk around like a pessimist all the time and doubt and complain, it is not attractive at all. No one likes to hear that stuff. Attraction is more than just looks. It involves our whole being and how we interact with people. It's time some of us took a good hard look in the mirror and ask ourselves some serious questions about our mentality and style of dress.