Dating a jealous person is one of the worst experiences ever. Should you just succumb to his jealousy and shun your friends? You need them in every step in life. You stand at a risk of ruining your social life. The best thing is to learn how to deal with it when you are dating a jealous person. Love is jealousy so they say but what makes it so strong in some relationships? May be they are naturally jealous and sharing anything they love makes them want to die. I have read about people who murdered their lovers and may be a suspect who the lover seemed to like. This is the ugly side of extreme jealousy. To avoid irreversible scenarios, it is wise to be extra careful while dating a jealous person.



While dating a jealous person, try as much as possible to establish a safe secure base for the relationship. Show the love of your life he is the best person you could ever date therefore he should have no fears. Jealousy is mostly bred by insecurities in a relationship. If you seem to like someone else better than your lover, he/she will be jealous even against their wishes. You might have a soft spot for this other person but to avoid uncalled for jealousy, do not let it be so evident. Off course it will raise eye brows when only one person's name appears in every of your conversations. Especially if the person in question is of the opposite sex. It leaves a lot to be desired. Avoid anything which can compromise the trust between the two of you.

While dating a jealous person, make a point of inviting them to meet your friends. This dissolves any type of misconception about your friends. The invitation should also depend on the circumstances. If it was a girls night out at your work place, do not drag him along with you. It portrays a bad picture about him and most probably spoil the evening for you. Do not give him the powers to be a control flick. It sucks. If you establish a culture of your lover meeting your friends when he/she can, he should understand when he can't. You should give him a reason not to be jealous.

Another important point to consider while dating a jealous person is introduction. To do away with the unsaid doubts it is logical to introduce your jealous lover to all the people you talk to. You might think it does not affect a thing but may be it is a major ingredient to the jealousy taking root in your relationship. Lovers are so funny sometimes they defeat any reasoning. Why should someone sulk because you smiled at a stranger? May be you felt happy and you just waved at someone and threw a charming smile their way. It doesn't hurt to say hello to a stranger too. It shows you are warm and friendly but this might not auger well with your jealous lover. Feign a relationship immediately and say something like "that is our tea girl" or "he works with us". Little lies don't hurt. They might save you from the face of jealousy.