What do girls want? Girls like guys who are vibrating with excitement and energy in what they are doing. Girls are magnetized by guys who also have confidence, and know how to handle themselves in all situations. How do guys discover the four most important vibes that attract women? Read the following and look to see what one thing you can do today to start finding what makes you vibrate.



Vibrating in his career

The first vibe that girls notice is how you feel about your work. If you love it, you give off an air of confidence, which is heady to be around.

You have to work at discovering the perfect career. What have you always wanted to do? Who have you always wanted to be? First you have to determine what you want to do, and then acquire the skills to do it, either by going to school or by learning from someone. Following that, you have to talk to people and network and put yourself out there over and over to find the job you want.

When you are concentrating on discovering your work, do research on the Internet. Join chat rooms. Network with everyone you come in contact with by talking about your interest and how you would like to use your training and experience. Contact universities and schools that would be knowledgeable about what you are seeking. Basically, once you are in touch with the idea of a career that is exciting to you, take action and keep at it until you have found it.

Vibrating with knowing himself

Girls like guys who are vibrating with a sense of knowing who they are. They like guys who are kind but do not try to "please" everyone. Guys who know how to say “no” to some people have a better sense of how to make a list of priorities, and then say "yes" to what and whom they do want. When guys don't have good interior boundaries and try too hard to be a "pleaser", they can create more stress than is healthy from trying to accommodate everyone at the same time. This is not attractive.

Vibrating with inner strength

Girls are attracted to guys who know where to draw the line. They don't let people walk all over them. They have what is known as exterior boundaries, which are the lines you draw between what is okay with you and what is not. The guys girls like pay attention to not let people trespass over their limits. They also know to not violate the lines of others. Without understanding boundaries, it is easy to swing too far in one direction or the other.

Vibrating with the wisdom to take care of himself.

Girls find guys who know how to take care of themselves to be very seductive. A guy who understands proactive boundaries knows to stay out of danger zones. He takes measures to protect himself BEFORE problems occur. If he knows a situation or person is going to be a challenge to deal with, he either stays away from the situation or is prepared within to deal with it.

Guys with wisdom remember that they don't have to take the bait when someone is argumentative, dismissive, or insulting. They keep their dignity and respond appropriately. They are not a doormat, but they don't explode with anger either. They tell the truth, stay calm, and look to see how they can defuse the situation.

Would you like to be the guy that every girl dreams of meeting? Think about the above four vibes that will automatically draw the girls to you.