If you don't have want you really want, it's probably because you may not feel that you deserve it, or that you feel you would be selfish and so on. I too, was there about 6 months ago. I was in debt to the tune of needing over $6,000 in ten days, I feared going on the computer to my bank account because it might be in the red. My relationships were not where I wanted them, I was depressed and asked myself if this is how I want my life to be. Of course, the answer was NO. I had recieved a copy of the DVD "The Secret", but after using it here and there for 3 months my life was not where I wanted it to be (far from it). So I told myself this was a either sink or swim situation. I decided to swim and I applied these six strategies that I had gotten from the Dvd and other readings and within the 10 days I didn't have the $6,000 I had a lot more. It seemed like first I was going backwards, but I kept visualizing my life the way I wanted it to be and was very grateful for those things that I had in my life, as though I already had them. Within 3 days things started changing a little at a time and then all of a sudden by the end of 10 days it was like those days of lack had never existed. Here they are:



1. Know what you don't want.I don't want these bills, this debt, this relationship the way it is, etc.

2. Know what you do want! I want an abundance of money, I want money to come easily and effortlessly, I want

my spouse and children to respect and appreciate me.

3. Get clear! You can have anything you want--just get clear and ask for what you want! If you want more money (state the amount) and visualize already having it.

4. Feel how wonderful it would be do, be, or have what you want. Feel the joy of seeing your bank account with the money that you have asked for, your spouse, children or someone special telling you how grateful they are to have you in their life. See yourself as an actor in the movie of "Your Life". Directing, producing and being in your movie. Visualize your life as you want it! What does it feel like?

5. Let go! Choose what you want and let your higher power bring it to you! It's not up to you to figure out how. Your higher power already knows how. Your job is to know it's coming!

6. Be GRATEFUL for what you have and also for what is coming. I write every morning in a notebook, I write how I want my day to be, but I write it as though it already happened. For example, I write, "I am so happy and grateful now that have a positive balance in my checking account of $2500.00 or more each and everyday." Then I elaborate on my relationships and how I might want a special occassion to be. Then in closing I write, "Please make this or something better happen. Thank you!!!" Whenever you ask for something always say "Thank you" right after.

So, what do you really want? It should be fun and exciting, and at times a little scary, but it's your movie so go for it!