Are you feeling vexed over the problems above? You are definitely not alone in this situation. A lot of people are facing similar problems as well. It is sometimes quite difficult to tell whether your ex has any intention to get back together, especially just after a break up. Most of the time, what your ex says may not really reveal what he/she means. Dont you think that is very confusing?



If you have just gone through a break up, this is not the time to focus on this question. Instead, you will want to allow both of you some time to calm and cool down first before taking any further action.

This is because you will probably be in an emotional turmoil just after a break up. Most likely, you are not really sure about what you want at this point of time. So, there is no point trying to figure out what he/she wants if you are not sure what you really want.

However if you have already broken up for quite some time already, then you may want to look out for certain signs.

(Take note that what is mentioned below apply to members of both genders. So it doesnt matter whether you are a man or a woman. You will be able to use the tips below. For simplicity, I will use he.)

First, you have to make sure that he is not showing any signs of indifference. Indifference means he is totally unconcerned about you. It doesnt matter whether you are dating another guy. What you do is no longer his concern.

If he gives you this kind of attitude, then it is best to move on. Next, you also want to know if he is dating another girl. If he is already committed to another girl, it is also advisable that you may want to move on.

However, if he is still single, most likely, you still stand a chance. The fact that he is still single may means he doesnt want to go into another relationship yet. Another possibility is that he is actually thinking about whether both of you can get back together.

If he still calls you once in a while to see if you are okay, that is also good news for you. That means he still miss you.