We are our worst enemies with all the doubts and fears that we allow to invade our minds. We think and believe that only others can succeed and we can not.- when in reality, the fact is, most people are more scared than we are.

Isn't it ironic that instead of looking inside ourselves, we look at other people, envy them for looking being so good at success and wish we could trade places with them. Insecurity is what stops the flow of the law of attraction and disables us from moving forward. This results in low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence and we lose hope of ever improving ourselves because we are not motivated enough to make the first step in attracting the positive things that will help us to change. Instead, we envelope the negative thoughts until they begin to suffocate us.

1. If you believe that you can, then you will. This is how the law of attraction works in all aspects of life.

2. Next, you take baby steps in doing one or two things toward your intended goals.

3. Do not surrender to your limitations and always think positively.

4. Keep friends that will not steal your dream.

5. Make friends with people who have a positive outlook on life and who think like you do.

6. Make new friends if you have to.

7. You will attract those people to the point that they will want to help you to succeed because you think like they do.

8. Educate yourself. Find out as much as you can about what your new successful friends do and imitate them.

9. Stay away from people who are critical towards you

10. Read books that enlightens and challenge you.

11. Love yourself

12. Reward yourself when you have completed one task towards the accomplishment of your goal

13. Believe that you can do anything that you want

I remember my story that I was not taught how to ride a bike when I was young. Everybody else could ride a bike and I told myself that I just couldn't. I tried to get on the bike and would always fall off. Do you know why? I told myself that I couldn't and I told myself that I was not teachable at such an older age. I associated bike riding with youth and so I limited myself in learning that it is actually easy to ride a bike. You have to reprogram your mind to get rid of the traditional lessons that you have learned when you were young. Retrain your thoughts and assess them for yourself. You are now an adult and you have a mind of your own. Use it.

"Show me your company and I will tell you who you are," is a statement that rings true even today. When you keep friends with people who are not improving their lifes, that is what you will get out of your life too. If you don't seek knowledge and ways to improve yourself, time will go by and you will still remain the same way you are without any change.

Stop dreaming about "what if" and "I wish" and make it possible by attempting to take action in the direction that you wish to go. The law of attraction will work for you if you allow your mind to be expanded and challenged, then you will receive anything you want in your life. Determine in your mind to do something to change your own life in a better way.

Copyright (c) 2007 Cheryline Lawson