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Dont Take Life Too Seriously

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Prom only comes once per year, and it's easy to get caught up in the excitement. With planning, shopping and pre-prom events at the forefront of your mind, you're probably thinking prom 24-7. But you couldn't turn into that girl. That girl who's so obsessed with prom that she has her entire night planned out, down the exact moment the limo will get her. The girl who campaigns as voraciously for Prom Queen as Obama did for the Presidency. That girl who plans her outfit to coordinate with the decorations (or vice versa, if she's on the committee).



No, of course not, you're far too level headed for that. Every Promzilla starts with a seemingly healthy interest in the event, that is compounded by weeks (or months) of day dreams and perfect moment fantasies. It's like being a Bridezilla, without the extremely long guest list. At first, Promzilla just wants everything to be perfect. By the time she's done, she has every minute detail so planned that even her mother can barely stand the stifling itineraries and to do lists.

OK, you're probably not that bad off? yet. But prom is undoubtedly on the forefront of your mind when it comes to shopping and planning. If you have a hard time walking past a store without the itch to run into look for the "perfect" (insert prom item here), you're starting to go a little overboard. If you pull out your prom outfit for daily reevaluation, you need to back up and de-prom your mind.

To avoid becoming that girl, try reevaluating how you look at Prom. Is it just another chance for an amazing time, or is it a life altering experience that must be executed perfectly? If you agree with the latter, it's time to readjust your priorities. Prom, while a prime place for tons of great memories, is just another night. Don't spend too much time obsessing over the who (to go with), what (to wear), where (to eat), when (to leave) and why (you want to be Prom Queen) of it.

The biggest Promzilla trap you can fall into is the fun of planning. Planning is, of course, something women relish. We spend hours agonizing over every little detail, because, on some level, we enjoy the excitement of it. Don't let the planning, and control that comes with it, become the end rather than the means. You may think that the more effort you put into planning, the more memorable and important prom may be. This, however, just isn't the case.

Step back from planning for a while. Take a breather from prom thoughts. The more you plan for and obsess over the event, the more it will become larger than life in your mind. If that comes to pass, you're destined to be a very disappointed Promzilla.
Don't Take Life Too Seriously
We continually seek out the latest in stress management techniques to achieve a less stressful life. To some degree, this is a good idea - constant negative stress should be reduced whenever possible. However, there's another side to stress - a positive side that's frequently overlooked.

Mental health professionals and doctors even have a name for positive stress: "eustress". Eustress refers to the constructive stress that helps keep you motivated and driven in all aspects of your life. For example, an athlete may find a big game stressful, but the nerves and excitement of this eustress encourages him or her to push harder and play better.

In this case, stress is a temporary response that brings about positive changes - such as the drive to play better. This is a very different phenomena than a long-term type of stress that eats away at the athlete's health and well-being.

So maybe you're not a world-class athlete - that doesn't mean you don't experience eustress in your own life. Maybe you get the same rush from performing in a community theater presentation or use the boost of stress to help inject energy into an important presentation at work. Perhaps you're someone who turns the stress of gaining weight into an impetus to spend more time at the gym.

Having a small amount of stress in our lives drives us to excel in everything we do and it enables us to feel content with life and the choices we've made. Therefore, getting rid of stress entirely is not only impossible - it wouldn't be healthy to do anyways!

We also need small amounts of stress in our lives to respond to the various threats and dangers we occasionally encounter. In this case, stress is part of the fight-or-flight response - a holdover from our primitive ancestors. When we detect the presence of danger, our bodies kick into high gear.

They release the hormone cortisol which increases the level of sugar in our blood. Our breathing rate increases and oxygen fills our muscles in preparation to either fight the threat or flee from it. Without this physiological response, we wouldn't be able to defend ourselves nearly as well against all sorts of dangers and intrusions.

While it's clear that too much stress can wreak havoc with your overall health, doctors and mental health specialists have found that too little stress can also be harmful. Negative stress causes a wide range of emotional and physical problems that can inhibit your energy and drive.

On the other hand, as long as it's reasonable and not excessive, a certain amount of stress plays a positive role in helping us fulfill our dreams and in enabling us to protect ourselves in times of danger. This eustress can give you the determination that's needed to work long and hard to accomplish your goals and will better equip you to handle the negative stress in your life.
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