** She does behind-your-back recon **



This one easily makes it to first place on the podium as it seems to happen the most. It basically comes down to you finding out that your ex girlfriend has been asking about you.

She will usually turn to some of your mutual friends to hear how you are doing, what's new in your life and more innocent questions like this that does not carry any innocent intentions at all.

Everybody has their pride, including your ex girlfriend. So what's the best way to try and figure out if you are still thinking about her? That's right, ask your friends and family!

If you get the news that she's been asking about you recently, you can go ahead and skip to the bottom of this article. We have just answered your question about "does my ex girlfriend still love me" ... YES!

** You catch her staring at you frequently **

If the both of you happen to work at the same place or maybe happen to go to the same bar one night, this is one that can REALLY give you some clear signs about her intentions.

If at any point during the night you catch her staring at you, you can know that she is still longing for you with heart and soul. She is wondering what you are talking about, if you're thinking about her, how it would be to sit next to you right now and just be held by you.

Again, pride and stubborness will cause her to no get up and just come talk to you. But rest assured she has got you on her mind.

** She is "fine" when you mention other girl in your life **

This one is almost cheating and bordering on manipulation, but it's also deadly effective and completely true. This method is a perfect example of pushing what author Matt Huston calls "female psychological hot-buttons".

This usually plays off like this. You guys might be chatting for a bit over the phone when you drop that you probably should start getting ready for tonight's date. She replies with a simple "Oh...." followed by a silence.

That silence is her cringing inside for not being the girl you're going out with tonight.

And that girl you're going out with can, of course, be completely fictional. It's just a test to see how she feels about it. Evil? Maybe. Effective? Extremely.

To make sure, now you should ask her if she is okay. She will definitely say "yes, everything is just fine..." but saying it in such a manner that you KNOW she is not really okay.

If you answered yes to any of the above situations, you need to get up and take action right now!

You are probably not even aware of it yet, but you can have your ex girlfriend back in your arms, begging you to take her back, in a matter of days from right now.

You just need to know exactly what to do next. You need your secret weapon to make her so incredibly attracted to you that she won't know what to do with herself.