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Winning Your Ex Back

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You're probably having a million thoughts running through your mind- regrets, and all sorts of questions. What if? But the truth of the matter is you are going to have to either:

?Come up with a plan to get your ex back, and

?Find a way to live until it happens, or

?Accept that it's over and move on

Soul-searching is called for, but almost impossible to do when your heart is aching. The first thing you're going to have to do is give yourself some time. The worst thing you could do is react out of fear and panic. Doing so will push your ex farther away. Get some help dealing with the hurt if it's overwhelming, but don't go begging now. It won't work and will probably make things worse.

After you've gathered yourself and the initial pain has subsided somewhat, resume your normal activities the best you can. Eat well, exercise, and keep your connection to others and the outside world strong. Avoid alcohol and other useless means of escape, as you need to be clear. Meditate or pray if it helps.

If you really want to win your ex back, you're going to have to come up with a plan that will re-open their heart to you. They loved you before- they can love you again. Just remember- you can't force some one to love you. Encourage or invite, but not force. That means you'll need to remind them why they loved you in the first place. If there's any love left at all, you can find a way to rekindle it.

How? Tell them what they need to hear. Listen to them without rehashing the whole breakup, and without blame. Come to them with caring and confidence. Don't beg, but do apologize if you need to. Take your time. This is a person who knows you and loved you- probably still loves you. With patience and thoughtfulness you can find a way to regain their trust and their affection. Just don't rush, don't push, and be straight with yourself.

Good luck!

Susie

Winning Your Ex Back

Winning ex back is hard enough without making common mistakes most women make just after a break up. Some of these mistakes are caused by just emotions running wild, others because there is no plan on winning ex back.

I will touch on three of the most common mistakes and I will also later discuss a plan with unconventional stratgeies that works like magic in getting the ex back.

1. Acting Needy-Don't Show Any Signs of Neediness.

You do not want to show any signs of being needy or desperate. The more emotional you get in front of your ex or his family and friends the more power you will give him. You need to show that you have your emotions under control and you are acting mature about the break up.

Just think about it for a while, would you rather you got back together because he loves you OR because he feels sorry for you? How long do you think the relationship would last if you got back together because he pities you?

2. Calling Your Ex Over and Over Again.

You need space after the break up to get your thoughts together and your emotions under control. Well, he needs his space to think through what his life will be without you. In most cases he will have second thoughts about the break up. But, you got to give him time to do this, you can't constantly call, text or email him all of the time.

This "drunken dialing" borders on being a stalker. Stalking him will destroy any chances you may have of winning ex back.

3. No Plan-Bad Advice.

If you don't have a proven plan that works like magic then you will be subject to bad advice from your family and friends. Everyone seems to think they are a relationship expert and they are more then willing to share their so called expertise.

Winning ex back is too important to you and your future to just take the wrong advice from amateurs. Get the right plan on getting the ex back!

You may think it is almost impossible to get him back, but no situations are impossible. Avoiding the above mistakes of acting needy, becoming a semi-stalker, and taking bad advice you can be happy again. Now you just have to get a plan, and you will be well on your way of winning ex back!

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