The message needs to be clearly identified as relevant and timely. By and large we need to become clear about things we choose to have in our lives. This is true for all and everything, from everyday practical matters to avoiding tricky and unpleasant emotions. The mystery is to be able to get a clear mind and then to uncover the answers to issues that trouble us. The 7 Words System offers a clear-cut intuitive sense of what is right that allows us to access a much better appreciation of what exactly we are trying to find. The process begins with No. To begin with, we will need identify accurately what it is that actually we don't want, what is not useful, before we can know what we do want.



Funeral thank you verses: HELLO is about openness and attention.

Its importance lies in bringing attention to aspects of death and dying that can perhaps otherwise not be recognized. The next stage concerns the word Hello. We will need to open up to new things if we want to expand our scope of keys to puzzles and challenges. We surely know that? To get something different we will need to extend our perspectives and look where we have not formerly looked up until now. Original thoughts, new friends, new places and new things are clearly facets of giving some consideration to something we have not formerly been subjected to. It calls us to switch old for new, that can tender something in fair return for what are trying to get.

Funeral thank you verses: THANK YOU is about giving from the heart.

The poignancy of the message will depend upon striking a balance between too little and too much sentiment. Between all of our opportunities, some are more desirable than others and we give them a higher merit, because we appreciate them more. This is explained by the primary word Thanks. Frequently, we overlook the worth of what we have, slide unconsciously into ungratefulness and are likely to presume things will always be the way they have been before. It's more than just a courtesy to reveal our appreciation for things we cherish; it has a major consequence in helping us to achieve our goals. Psychologically we are drawn to what we convey appreciation for, and yet it's equally accurate to say that we are able to attract them to us too. We acquire pulling power when we say Thanks and therefore, whenever we do this, we readily bring things to come to us.

Funeral thank you verses: GOODBYE is about completion and moving on.

The finality of death has to be dealt with; there is comfort to be offered in Truth. The word Goodbye is the fourth of the 7 primary words and concerns a process that has 4 clearly defined steps. They are: realization, decision, completion and moving on. What we are saying Goodbye to is a particular stage of development, so is to be observed in basic terms as absolute rejection of a workable course of action that previously we had been moving towards and in future will not pursue. It is a turning point in our selection of possible outcomes. Goodbye is different from No because it is clear that there has been a degree of involvement already, which now needs to end compared to No's rebuttal in the first place. Proper decisions cut the past away unreservedly and that incisiveness creates an opportunity that otherwise does not appear.

Funeral thank you verses: PLEASE is about vision and prayer.

Many people have little or no experience of prayerfulness hence the special value of poetry to create sacredness through beauty. The future develops according to the lifestyles of the past unless we take control of it and shape it to our desire. To do this forces us to have a vision of how we want it to be; this vision has to be very clear, particular and optimistic—and converted into intention. They differ don't they - vision and intention? The first is a bit dreamlike and the second is much more motivated and deliberate. For a dream to become real there must be support. . Nothing can be done without securing the support of other people - this takes talent, possibly persuasion, even encouragement. It is not always vital to proffer something such as money or money's worth.

Funeral thank you verses: SORRY is essentially about release.

Remorse, guilt and blame are issues that poems can address elegantly. Sorry, the 6th primary word, is best seen as making good damage done because we've been thoughtless or unmindful to the circumstances of another. The best idea is to make sure we prevent the need to say it by being thoughtful sooner. For what reason? Well it's because anyone we upset could easily be inclined to act against us and diminish our chances of accomplishing what we intend, so it is obviously more wise to think about others as well as ourselves. This question is all to do with being responsible, having a degree of concern for anyone we've upset and making amends when we've blundered. Then and only then will it ever be possible to forestall or fix any resentment and leave go of the permanent nastiness that otherwise would grow and become further aggravated.

Funeral thank you verses: YES is about accepting and surrender.

Perhaps the deepest compassion is expressed when leading the bereaved to accept what is inevitable. The final stage of our 7 Words structure is to do with acceptance; there are instances when we simply have to admit what we cannot change. The word is Yes. It would be lovely wouldn't it if we were able to make the world exactly the way we envision it - but in truth we can't. We always need to withstand what comes, and to take what is not exactly what we asked for. The best habit is to have conviction that everything sooner or later turns around to our advantage, that the modifications to our plans are all improvements when considered in the perspective of the longer term. Unquestionably it's not easy to see it when we are still close and attached to our desires of course not! Still pause a while and you will see that the surprising occurrences, the surprises and disappointments are actually the best bits masquerading as misfortune.