The big problem for most men is that they are average in every way. They may be ugly, but they are also lacking in many other key areas. This is the trick that the ugly guy has up his sleeve. He knows how to adapt the right personality, attitude, and mindset to date beautiful women. Here are some reasons why he can get the girl why you cant.

Reason #1: He doesn't believe he needs to be good looking

Good looks are really nothing more then a bonus. Ugly guys understand this. They know that they will never be good looking. They work on the many other areas that allow them to attract women. They simply make the most of what they got.

The good looking guys assume that every woman should like him just because he has good looks. This means the good looking guy will lack in other areas. Some guys will try to buy her love with money, gifts, and favors. Thats fine as long as you want a girlfriend that uses you for those reasons.

Reason #2: She likes who he is

Just about all women like guys who like her for who she is. This also works the other way around. Almost all women like a guy who she is attracted to for who he is. She doesn't like a guy for what he does for her. She is attracted to men who make her feel good.

If you try to buy her with money, drinks, flowers, and other things you will rob her of this feeling of being attracted to you. She will feel like you are trying to force her into liking you. Women like it when it feels more natural and as if it was just meant to be.

Reason #3: Ugly men go after what they want

How many men have you met that say any of the following: "I'm not good enough for her." "Women don't like guys like me." "I'm not good looking." The odds are you have said this to yourself and you know many men who do it all the time.

Ugly men live in a different world. They believe that there are many women out there that will be attracted to them. "All women want me." 'There are almost too many women for me to meet." The is an attitude that makes them have a successful dating life.

Reason #4: Ugly men are masculine

Women are attracted to men who are masculine. In many cases these ugly guys demonstrate masculinity better then some of the good looking guys. Sure some of these guys look great, but if they don't bring any masculine traits forward it would be like dating a woman instead of a man.

Reason #5: He is honest about who he is

Women wonder about all of these nice guys. Is he always this nice? Why is he this nice to me? What is he trying to hide from me? What does he really want from me?

Ugly men do not demonstrate that type of behavior. They put themselves out there for her to see. She will trust this man more because she knows who he really is and what she will get from him.