Too often we become caught up in the doing of every day life and we forget that it is meant to be enjoyed. Establishing a system for ease will help you to put the fun back into your life. The following are six systems will help you identify and create your ideal career and live your ideal life with a lot more energy and productivity on a daily basis.
1) Establish a System for Empowerment
If you are not happy with any aspect of your current life, you must begin by identifying and fulfilling your lifes purpose. The key is to create a purpose for your life that is so inspiring, so compelling that you feel empowered to fulfil it. Once you have identified your purpose ask yourself how you can turn this into your ideal career.
To identify your life purpose, ask yourself the following questions:
When you were a child, what dreams did you have for your future? What did you want to be, do and have when you grew up?
What would you be, do and have if you had all the time and money you ever needed and you had to use your talents to give back to society?
2) Establish a System for Efficiency
Your time is precious. How you choose to spend your time is entirely up to you but wouldnt you prefer to spend it on things that are meaningful to you, things that fill you with satisfaction, that add value to your life, that make you feel fulfilled? If time were money, would you be spending it on some of the things that you currently do every day or would you invest it more wisely?
The keys to getting greater results from your time is effective planning and knowing how to prioritise. By identifying your real priorities you will achieve more. Deliberately focus 80 percent of your energy on the tasks that are most important to you and the other 20 percent on the urgent, less important tasks.
3) Establish a System for Elimination
A system for elimination gives you the means to remove toxins and unnecessary clutter from your life. Toxins can be mental, emotional, spiritual or physical and often come in the form of addictions and unfinished business. Unfinished business can be anything that you have started but not finished; this traps energy in the past. If you do not have 100 percent of your energy available in the present you will not be as productive as you can possibly be.
Some simple tips to help you remove toxins from your life include:
Write a list of all your unfinished business and complete all of it within the next seven days.
Remove toxic thoughts, feelings, beliefs and behaviours from your mind by focusing on what you do want in your life, not on what you do not want.
De-clutter and simplify your life, tidy your house, car, garage, wardrobe, office and so on. Eliminate any old energy that no longer serves you.
Establish a System for Exercise
Performing some form of exercise on a daily basis will provide you with so many benefits, both physically and psychologically. Physically, exercise improves your aerobic and anaerobic fitness; muscle strength; power, flexibility and tone; energy levels; sex drive; sleep quality and insulin levels (which helps to reduce sugar cravings). Psychologically, exercise improves your confidence and self-esteem, feelings of well-being and stress levels.
It is important to incorporate a balanced combination of different types of exercise into your routine, including:
Resistance exercise, such as weight training, which increases your muscle strength and tone as well as your bone density (to reduce your risk of injury).
Cardio vascular exercise, such as aerobic or anaerobic training, to increase the efficiency of your heart and lungs and reduce your body fat levels.
Flexibility exercise, such as regular stretching to improve your posture, to help you to recover from exercise faster and to reduce your risk of injury.
An effective exercise program should be developed around three to six thirty minute sessions per week. For example:
DayExercise TypeProgram Type
Monday, Weights:Chest, Shoulders, Triceps
Tuesday, Cardio:Intervals and Stretch
Wednesday, Weights:Legs and Abdominals
Thursday, Cardio:Intervals and Stretch
Friday, WeightsBack and Biceps:
Saturday, Resistance/Flexibility:Abdominals and Stretch
Sunday,Rest/Reward day
Did you know there are 336 half hours in a week?
Only six of those half hours are required to get the best possible results from your exercise, thats only 1.75 percent of your week!
5) Establish a System for Eating
To gain the maximum benefit from any exercise program combine your physical activity with high quality nutrition. The following is one system that works for many people:
Eat 5-6 smaller meals per day.
Two-thirds of your plate should be plant (or natural) food.
Incorporate six to eight servings of different fruits and vegetables into your menu every day.
Avoid eating carbohydrates after 6pm.
Make sure you eat breakfast every day.
The ideal breakfast should be high in fibre and low in sugar, for example a low-sugar cereal, porridge or multi-grain toast.
Try to consume low Glycemic Index (GI) foods.
Reduce your caffeine, alcohol and junk food intake.
Drink 2-3 litres of purified water per day
Prepare your weekly menu plan and shopping list before you go shopping and never shop on an empty stomach.
Have a day off each week and eat whatever you like!
6) Establish a System for Evaluation
Evaluation is perhaps the most overlooked aspect of any work / life balance process. Constant feedback keeps you on track to achieve your goals, without it you may never arrive at your destination. Evaluate your progress daily and weekly to keep you accountable for the direction you have chosen and ensure that you are evolving on a daily basis.
If you implement even one of the systems above you are well on your way towards achieving an excellent balance between your work and your life. Congratulations, I hope you enjoy meeting the new, more balanced you.
How To Balance Work And Life
If you are like most people, your definition of success is based on external factors. A nice house, perfect children, a trophy wife or husband, nice vacations, lots of material things, and of course, a great big salary.
What price will you pay for external success?
This is a question worth thinking about. Are you willing to work 10, 15, or 25 years at a “just a job" that you don’t really enjoy? Will all those material things make a miserable work life worth it in the end? Will you even have time to enjoy these things? Certainly, others in your family will enjoy these things. Is that enough to make it worth YOU spending all those years at the office doing meaningless work?
Will you work many years just so SOMEONE will approve of you?
Again, many of us do this as well. Your mother-in-law is proud, and your wife or husband brags about your job title at social gatherings. Does this make it worth it?
There are tradeoffs
As a public speaker and author whose life mission is to help people discover and do what they love, I can tell you there are tradeoffs. People over 40 usually know, deep inside, that their 20 years of working have met external society standards, but in many cases have not met their internal need for joy in their work.
As a college professor, I have taught thousands of students who are very focused on grades and making lots of money, but who have not been taught exactly what work FITS them best.
Both age groups, the over 40s and the students, are left confused, scared, and lost.
How do you define success from the inside out?
First, you must have a vision of what you want. What work excites you? Is there someone who you envy — someone who does similar work? If you had 50 million dollars, what work would you do right now?
Next, write down what you want. It is amazing what happens when you write down what you want. In many ways, it forces you to see your dream from a new perspective. Try it now for yourself. Write down the work you really want to do. You might write something like:
“The work I really want to do is………and the reason is………"
I have found, in my research and in my life, that when we know the reasons WHY we want something, then we can start to move towards it.
Talk to others
Many people stop short of their dreams by not talking about what they want. It almost doesn’t matter who you talk to, as long as you discuss your plans with others. They will, of course, offer their opinions; ignore them.
You are simply sharing what you have already decided to do.
Take small steps
Every success in life starts with a small step.
Let’s say you have a vision of yourself as a high school history teacher (I always thought it would interesting to dress up in the era of the period I was teaching to inspire my students). You have written down that you plan to become a teacher because this is something you enjoy, and because you believe you could make a difference in the lives of your students.
Now you start to tell people your plans. By doing this, you actually start to commit these plans to yourself, and it will be hard to turn back. You call a local school, and set up a meeting with a high school history teacher to find out exactly what you have to do next. Then you call and have a college send you enrollment papers to start a program to get the credentials you need. Now there is no turning back.
Now measure your steps
Now that you have committed to your new life, you’ll have to measure your steps. First, talk to your family, and come up with a plan to accommodate the new life you are working towards. You may have to adjust your standard of living, or maybe just pay more attention to your spending.
You’ll have to measure your progress towards your goal, and plan where you will focus next.
Learn to celebrate
You will be disappointed if you wait for a family member, or anyone else, to reward your progress. The rewards will have to come from you. I have learned that, when a person starts to live a life of integrity, this is reward enough.
You no longer have to compare yourself to others. It no longer matters who has the better house or car or spouse!!
The cycle starts over
As you make progress towards your new goals, you will continually adjust your vision to the reality you seek.
When you define success as a contest to keep up with the new toys others have, you will always lose. There will always someone new to compete with. But when you do the work you love, and that FITS you, you will be happy and content inside, and just grateful that you have found your own authentic path. This is the best reward of all.
Now you will start to appreciate others without the need to compete.
Do you want to start to live to your own standards?
Start to move towards doing the work you love. It will not be easy, but it will be worth it!
As always, I’ll be cheering you on as you go- Craig Nathanson
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