Today, we're going to look at being a charming man in order to spark and maintain the interest of women. First, let's look at the dictionary definition.



Charm (noun): A particular quality that attracts; a delightful characteristic.

Women will fall for you everywhere you go if can make them feel the emotion of attraction, in addition to being charming. Here are some quick examples and tips:

Be 'Smooth' About Your Sexual Advances: Due to social values, religious beliefs and the complexity of the human mating game, women have different ideas about what is 'OK' in terms of how quickly they can have sex with a new man.

Most guys are fine to meet a woman and sleep with her pretty much immediately. However, if a woman behaves in this way, she risks being considered a tart by others. Thus, it's very important to understand how to escalate things to the next level with a woman without making her feel like a cheap tramp.

Sometimes it isn't calibrated to kiss a woman in front of her friends, in a lit up area, or too soon. Sometimes it is the right thing to do. You will need to test and learn from experience.

The best advice is to not make her look like a cheap tramp in front of others. However, you must not be afraid to lead and take things to that level. Most women will not make the first move and will resent you if you're timid, or if you hesitate and squirm under the pressure.

Open a Door or Two: Do this the right way and it will be appreciated. She is your princess and you are her prince/she is your woman and you are her protector male. The wrong way to open a door for a woman is like a servant who is trying to suck up to and impress her.

Walk on the Outside of the Footpath: Again, you are not her servant but a man whom she can feel safe with.

You don't need to tell a woman that you're doing this. Simply guide her to the inside and give her an endearing smile. If she asks why you are doing it, give her a wink and continue on. A great piece of advice I once got was, "Never say what you can smile. Never smile what you can nod. Never nod what you can wink."

Cook Dinner at Your Place: If she's beautiful, she has probably had tens or even hundreds of guys take her out for dinner.

She knows how to play the 'dinner date' game. However, dinner at your house is a different playing field. Some women may pretend that they don't want to do and say "No" initially. You need to realize that she may be saying that only to avoid coming across as too eager or easy. Calibrate though, sometimes the "No" will be real and sometimes it won't. If you have a hunch that she might say no, then use a bit of playful cockiness to find out.

You: I love cooking...are you a good cook?

Her: (Says something).

You: Hmmm...I tell you what.instead of doing the traditional thing that everyone else does like going to a movie or dinner at a restaurant, why don't you come over and I'll cook us a nice dinner to start with. The best part is that if I don't like you, I can kick you out after dinner and pretend I have to go to work early in the morning or something.

Her: Ha! Kick me out?

You: Yes, so you'd better be on your best behavior!

Her: You're mean!

You: What is it about mean guys that you like so much?

Her: *laughing*

You: Cool. Well, come over at 8pm. Make sure you bring some wine. I won't drink much, in case we go for a drive"

While very simple, cooking dinner at your place is a great way to charm women. It also allows you both to get to know each other at a faster and more relaxed pace.