Jealousy is a whole bundle of feelings that tend



to get lumped together. It is one of the most

destructive and painful emotions in a dating

relationship. Jealousy is about fear of losing

power of control in a relationship. Jealousy is

sweet sometimes, but in moderation. Too much

jealousy can destroy a relationship, because is

driving a wedge between the two.

You have a relationship for a long time with an

amazing girl, you love her very much, but the

problem is that she is very jealous and that's

why you are arguing a lot. You don't want to lose

her so you have to deal with it.

But she is over reacting: she calls you in the

middle of the night to make sure that you are at

home, she is checking your mobile phone, calls

you when you go out with your friends to see

where you are and how much you stay or becomes

very angry when she sees you looking or talking

with any other girl. Also she gets suspicious and

make accusations which are not all heartfelt, it'

s teasing you a lot, accuse you of being

unfaithful even if there is no basis for her to

think this way. After a while you are enough of

all this, but you are ready to make all the

sacrifices you can to understand her and make her

stop with all these.

There are many reasons we feel jealous and though

it is a normal human emotion to feel. Jealousy

comes from insecurity. Maybe she is afraid that

you will see another girl and suddenly like her

more that you like her. So, try to not give her

many reasons to feel jealous. Avoid looking at

other girls in her presence, don't compare her

with other girls, don't exclude her from your

future plans and also avoid having female best

friends. If you have already a best female friend

and don't want to lose any of them, you should

try meeting them both and making them become

friends.

No matter the reasons why she feels jealous, you

should try to understand why she feels that way.

As an example, maybe she can't deal with the fact

that before her you had a girlfriend, your first

girlfriend with whom you stayed more than with

her, you loved her, but all is over because she

betrayed you. But your actual girlfriend doesn't

want to accept that, and continues to be jealous

on her. Explain her that she has to accept that

we all have a past and move on because that past

isn't going to change, and assure her that she is

the only one for you.

Maybe all of us which have a relationship for

some time and love their partner are sometimes a

little jealous. Think about it: how would you

feel to see her at school or work talking with

other guys, and comes and tells you how great

they are, wouldn't you be jealous? Or maybe there

are some people around her that you don't like

and don't trust in them, and then you see that

you are jealous too. A little bit of jealousy is

healthy, but in her case, which is over reacting,

she may need some help from you to get over it.

The best thing you can do to deal with your

jealous girlfriend and to not break up with her

is to talk sincere with her and tell her how you

feel. Also be faithful to her and explain her

that you know that relationships are based on

trust so you are going to be sincere with her all

the time. Communicate sincerely and with calm and

tell her she needs to get her self ? esteem in

check, because she is splinting you apart.

Having a heart to heart discussion and explain

her that all this jealous behavior will drive you

away. Often an honest exchange of feelings will

solve the problem.

The jealousy often ruined the relationship

because it push away the other partner more and

more with every fight and argue they had; after

some time the partner which is accused all the

time had enough and leave. But if you really love

her and want that your relationship continues,

make an agree both, to stop arguing so much. You

will not give her so many reasons to be jealous,

and she will try to not call you so many times a

day.