Fear is the main prohibitor in getting the girl you want. If you start to talk to a girl and end up freaking out you'll start to look weird and she will definitely notice. The more normal you can look and the more in control of yourself you are the better your chances of impressing the girl you're after.



If you are a nervous wreck when it comes to the opposite sex, start getting used to speaking with girls. Start out with some small chit-chat, give her a compliment and then walk away. You don't have to prove anything or do anything, just get used to the idea of making conversation.

Do something every day to step out of your comfort zone. You may not have the best looks or an athletic body but you can have the right attitude. Girls want someone who is confident, genuine and together. Examine yourself as you interact with different girls. Focus on developing integrity and learning to understand them. When a girl sees a deepness and a wholeness to you she will be more attracted to you.

Have fun and enjoy the conversations you have. Girls like interaction and dialogue so don't be overly cocky but be playful. If you are having fun she will see you as someone who enjoys life. You don't want to look like a bore and she doesn't want to think she will have to spend all the energy in the relationship. So keep up the conversation and make her laugh if you can. Laughter can break down barriers and help her to trust you more.

What do girls really want and how do I attract the girl of my dreams? These questions can take years to figure out and the answers may seem illogical at first. What seems natural and logical to guys may not be what really attracts girls, in fact it might put them off.

Guys often think that girls will like the same things they do. So they make every effort to look good and be as sweet as possible, thinking that if they like girls like that a girl would surely want the same thing in a guy. Guys will often try to be the nicest guy in the world and when the girl isn't interested they think it is because they are not good looking enough or rich enough. This couldn't be further from the truth.

Guys who are successful at dating girls are usually not the best looking or the richest (so there's hope for us yet), but they do have something else that puts them a step ahead of everyone else. The thing is, men get turned on by the sight of a gorgeous looking girl, a woman on the other hand will get turned on by the personality traits of the man. Attraction works differently for men and for women and the great thing is that these personality traits that attract girls can be learnt.

As girls go to the gym to get the body that will drive men crazy so guys can work on their communication and personality to develop that almost magical power of attraction.