When dating and especially during the first date what matters very much is the impression that you create to her. As much as possible create the best impression during the first day. Ladies value very much what they see more than what the real situation is. A good gift quite often is valued very much and will make her think you are a gentleman. A bunch of good flowers for example might not cost you so much but to her the are a source of inspiration. This will make her feel so valued and appreciated a lot in your life. You don't necessarily have to overstretch yourself to make her think you are a gentleman. The little money that you have is enough even if you buy her a bar of chocolate it will be highly appreciated.



As you may have noticed that ladies take their precious time to make them look better and attractive. Take some time to whisper some nice words of appreciation in her ears she will highly appreciate, women are made of sweet words. Just pick on something nice in her dressing and pass some compliments like: "You look great in that dress" or "The style of your hair is fantastic." It will make her think you are a gentleman and might as well be a good start of a successful date.

During the date in most of the instances women expect the man to foot the bill. But times are charging and a lot of feministic approach towards life taking a center stage, she might as well offer to pay. In this kind of a situation for a man it sounds very tricky because by insisting that you want to pay the bill she might feel not honored. The best option would be to suggest you share the bill and in most cases she would not refuse and if she does, let her pay it will make her think you are a gentleman.

A sense of security and belonging is very important to any woman and that is why you will find a woman would rather he foots the bill even if she earns more than him. There has been reported incidents where a wife would push some money in her husbands pockets in a restaurant just to make sure that the person to be seen footing the bill will be him. This gives the lady a senesce of satisfaction and especially in public places where she feels that her man has to be regarded as a gentleman at any cost.

The closing of the date is equally important as the beginning, help her out to carry a few things like her jacket to the car. You can as well move infront and make sure you are the one to open the the door of the car to her, make her think you are a gentleman. Drive her home safely and at this time it will be clear and evident in your mind whether you have scored or she still may need more. Remember to call her when you reach home after the date. This shows her how caring you can be and she will feel cherished and honored.