How does she know that after she sleeps with you



all of what you said will

be backed up?

All three of these questions have the same answer.

Credibility.

When most guys think they don't have enough value,

90% of the time, it's

credibility they lack. In fact, most of

everything used to create value

these days only serves to make a nasty woman-

repelling player vibe.

(and anyone who's anyone KNOWS I don't even teach

value. Not for a damn

second!)

?Player vibe? is not actually a bad vibe, but a

mistake in building and

maintaining credibility.

Being able to create credibility is one of the

key components to sleeping

with a girl quickly.

The other component is sexual tension.

And as a good student of pick-up, you know that

some women need sexual

tension to sleep with you and the other half need

credibility first. (You do

know that, right?)

So let's get down to it:

There are three levels of credibility.

1. Safety

2. Commonality

3. Direction

Safety: The most basic and fundamental level of

credibility, you need to

demonstrate SAFETY before a woman will be alone

with you and sleep with you.

Commonality: You need to demonstrate commonality

in order for a woman to

continue sleeping with you, or have a

relationship with you.

Direction: You need to show direction in order to

get a woman to leave her

current boyfriend or change her existing life

plans to be with you.

A WORD ABOUT SOCIAL PROGRAMMING ->

You have to realize that every person you meet is

socially programmed in a

different way. Even you have social programming.

We all do.

It's not necessarily a bad thing. On the contrary,

it's very useful.

Realize that although we understand a lot of a

woman's behaviors come from

her social programming, we can't expect her to

realize that.

While men have evolved an instinct to try to

sleep with as many women as

possible, women have evolved an instinct to

choose guys who demonstrate a

high chance of sticking around to raise children.

And this instinct is reinforced by social

programming.

Her programming is her reality. Her programming

is literally her world.

And credibility is about showing you understand

her world.

HERE'S AN EXAMPLE ->

Think about if you were in your bedroom.

Comfortably warm sitting in a

chair.

And then a guy came in. And he said he was cold.

And wanted to turn up the heat. Then he told you

he liked the couch you were

sitting in.

And asked if he could urinate in the corner.

You would feel pretty uncomfortable with him. You

might even think he's

crazy.

He's showing you that he's not seeing the same

reality as you. He's ?in his

own world?.

I bet you wouldn't trust a guy like that.

Because he has shown you that he doesn't

understand your world, and doesn't

respect your world - you probably wouldn't

connect with him, or feel like

giving him compliance.

This is how women feel when you don't demonstrate

credibility.

If she thinks that it's a bad thing for people to

kiss and tell (and most

women do) -> You should show her you ALSO believe

it's bad for people to

kiss and tell.

The fact that you have the same perceptions about

the world as her will

build your credibility immensely.

You can think of the three levels in this way:

Safety - It's safe to have you in her world.

Commonality - You see the same things in her

world. (Similar perceptions,

values, and goals)

Direction - You have the ability to rearrange and

alter her world.

These are best demonstrated in order.

And you can get really good at this. At first,

guys are usualy good at

meeting a certain kind of woman.

It's because he naturally understands a certain

type of worldview.

But as you get good, you'll start to be able to

match ANY woman's worldview.

The best way of doing this is by anticipating her

thoughts and verbalizing

her feelings or views about the world, as if they

are your own.

At first you will just be remembering things she?

s said in the past, and

then repeating it after she's forgotten she's

said anything.

Then you will get good at pacing her reality and

leading. Eventually it gets

to the point where you can intuitively understand

her reality. Then she will

trust you to change it for her. You enter her

world, and then start teaching

her new things about HER world.

That's when you know you get this thing.

When someone comes along who understands a woman?

s reality so well, she

doesn't just think he's perceptive and skilled,

she just feels a connection.

She thinks ?He's just like me!?

This is really the easiest thing in the world.

Yet so many people mess it

up.

It's a major piece and you'll watch your game

improve dramatically once you

get this.