Whatever your heart may tell you, and what ever your feelings, does not make the mistake of obsessing over any guy whom you can never have. There may be so many other boys even in your neighborhood, who would be 1000 times better than the guy you thought about.



In that case, you would be really wasting precious time and energy obsessing over that guy whom you could care for and who would actually justify your feelings.

Before you jump into any conclusion, I would rather suggest that you take time studying the person you like a little from every angle. You should have a fair idea about what type of a person your preferred guy really is, or is he just a player or a user. You can avoid any nasty surprises he could probably give you in case he is just a player.

One of the foremost things you can look to in a guy is the way in which he mingles with other females around. This is one good signs you could get to know if he is just a flirt and how smoothly he gets along with ladies around.

So remember, whenever you next happen to be together at a campus, restaurant or party, observe how he behaves with other females around him, and if you find him casual and comfortable with other ladies, it could mean he has had good prior experience handling girls in the past.

Next, if you have closely observed him and find that he is fairly comfortable with women and other girls, and that he finds cool to place hands on girls (it could mean even you), you can be rest assured that he is just a player.

You can look forward to many signals that reveal the main question like 'is he really interested in me?' or 'is he genuinely interested in me?'. Some of the points are illustrated below:

1.Keep a watch on the chap you really have a liking for, and if possible try catching him gazing at you. If he is really serious about a girl, he will look for a chance to gaze at her even when she is not looking.

Thus if you are able to catch him from the corner gazing at you, then it is a positive signal. He is really showing keen interest in you.

2.Observe if he is smiling at you, when you happen to walk together, or just in a general manner.

3.Notice his behavior in general with people around you; chances are his behavior has somewhat changed recently.

4.When he initiates, try to show interest in his gestures and then observe how he responds. This should make him comfortable to ask you out on a date.

5.Please see if recently he has put efforts to get to know and befriend your friends more than earlier

6.You can alternatively ask some of your friends to do the talking - this is one of the quickest strategies and could work positively if you would like to know the answer fast. But it ought to be subtle.

7.You may also befriend his friends, if you happen to be lucky. But do not worry, if you do not know anyone of them. It takes a little effort to know and befriend them. After this happens, you can comfortably ask his friends, but keep it subtle.

8.If you find him teasing you, or making jokes at you then you can be sure that he is surely interested in you.

You can also look for the five signs to decide if he is serious about you too:

- He informs someone about the fact that he likes you too.

- He has that killing look which says everything.

- He listens and responds positively to whatever you say.

- He happens to know your schedules, so appears sometimes unexpectedly.

- If you are well a happy and fun-loving person, there is no reason why he won't like you.

If these five questions were answered, he would be on the verge of asking you out. Relationships begin from here.

As aptly said, a woman has a hidden talent to read a man's eyes through her eyes. If a male really likes you, he is sure to make a direct eye contact with you. He will be at his best behavior when he is with you. He would do everything to entertain you. He would not just pretend to act and impress if he is genuinely interested in you. He would be appreciative of your positive points, and wouldn't give fake praises, but would opine honestly. He shares his accomplishments with you and supports you with each important task. He would reveal his deepest wishes and fears with you.