Going for a kiss is a scary moment for most guys. Just like the initial approach, and just like when you ask for a number, it is a point where you could be rejected. Most guys will talk for a few minutes, or hours and then lunge in for a kiss, or they will wait for a movie moment style kiss outside her house. These moments are usually awkward for you AND her.



To kiss a girl earlier on, and without any chance of her rejecting you, you need to do it smoothly.

How to go for a kiss smoothly

1. Touch her in increasingly more sensual ways leading up to the kiss:

- Touch her arm for emphasis when you are talking

- Touch her hand. Looking at jewellery is a good excuse

- Touch her hair. Asking if it is her natural colour, if she ever wears it up, has ever cut it short/used to have it long, or even when she washed it is a good excuse. If she is comfortable with you touching her hair and doesnt recoil at all, then she is kissable, you can go for it here

- Smell her hair

- Take her hand and hold it as you talk. If you have done the above, it will be acceptable at this point. Dont look at her hand or draw attention to it, just d it.

- Squeeze her hand and see if she squeezes back, this is another kiss-tell. No girl ever squeezes back if she isnt ready to kiss.

- Stop talking, pause, tilt head and look at her. See if she is comfortable. If she is you can kiss.

What if she turns her face when you try to kiss?

Kiss her cheek and then her neck! She will turn around and kiss you. This is not a rejection but most guys assume it to be and back away. Do this and you can turn her on even more.

So, now you know how to touch her, but it will still not be 100% smooth if you are still in the same character as you are when talking to your hairdresser i.e. boring and acting like a friend instead of lover. You need to

2. Establish a sexual vibe as you escalate the physical contact

You do this by:

- More intense eye contact

- Slower, smoother, deeper voice

- Look at her in a sexual way, start to look at her lips as well as her eyes and see if she reciprocates. If she does she is imagining kissing you.

Sometimes, even with no work on your part, she will want you.

When a girl wants to kiss you:

- She squeezes your hand

- She looks at your lips

- She touches your chest instead of arm

- She is comfortable with hard eye contact even when no one is speaking