In writing a eulogy, you can begin by simply talking to other people who are also grieving. Perhaps during the wake, you can go around and talk with people who also knew the person. More likely than not, all the people there will have some memory to share of the deceased person. You can use these stories in your eulogy to illustrate the life that the person had.



You can also start by listing down memories, places, dates that had meaning to you and the person. After you have finished jotting all you can remember, you can then choose among those you wrote down. Include only around two or three anecdotes because anything more will be too long. Choose those that you believe tell most about who the person was and about the kind of life that he or she had lived.

After this, the next step in how to write a eulogy is to decide with what to open the eulogy with. You can begin with a line from a favorite song, movie, or book. You can also begin with a statement that the person loved to say while he or she was still alive. Perhaps, you can use one of the stories of the people you talked with as your opening.

You can then begin to tell about what you will miss most about the person. Or what memory of the person will you cherish the most. Remember that a eulogy is more of a sharing than it is a speech. This is one speech where you can speak from the heart and not be judged. A good eulogy is one that is honest, true, and heartfelt. If what you say comes from the heart, those who are listening will know.

If you belong to a Christian family, it would be a great idea to incorporate quotes from the Scripture in your eulogy. The Bible is a great source of comfort in times of grief and this is a good time to share it to others.

An important thing to remember in preparing the eulogy is to always keep in mind that you are not delivering a eulogy so that other people will be impressed by you. A eulogy is an honor not given to anyone. Do not miss out on the chance to say the things that you want to say, to honor the beloved one who passed away, and recognize the impact of his or her life in yours.

When you have done all this, you can now answer those who will ask you how to write a eulogy.