Being a single man is fun, most of the time! I know that happiness is not something that can be measured in absolute terms and as such may or may not exist completely. All of us single or married have things about our lives and ourselves that we would love to be able to change, and the life of a middle age single man is not different.



Of course, optimists tell me that there is a difference between being single and being lonely and the truth is I meet my fair share of people at work during business meetings, lunches and the likes. So looking through the proverbial half full glass, I am definitely not lonely.

After all, I have made a lot of very good friends throughout my years as a Miami resident, and I do get to see these friends socially on a regular basis, at a local restaurant, or a friend's house where we I meet lots of other single people, just like me.

For those of us, and even some of the married folks out there seeking for fun on the side, adult dating with partners who want the same is not always possible.

After all how can you tell the friend sitting next to you: “Hey, let's go back to my place and have some fun”? And even though friends with benefits seem to be a concept increasing in popularity this has happened with any one of mine and so we are all still looking.

The other day, as I was checking my emails at home I stumbled upon a dating website where encounters of a specific kind were being advertised. I had heard about online dating and of course every man has a hidden fantasy of belonging to a swinger's club but I had not realized that there were people out there who were just like me, looking for companionship to explore fun, sexuality and more on a strictly non committed fashion.

And rather then spending time procrastinating again as to why I should not give this method a try, I decided that I would join one of these online adult websites and see what if any thing would develop as a result.