Exactly what problem are you attempting to address? By and large each of us has a need to become much less confused about things we would like. This applies to everything, from things that are useful to avoiding tricky and unpleasant emotions. The problem is to get a clear mind and then to find the solutions to issues that trouble us. The 7 Words System offers a clear-cut insightful procedure that makes it possible for us to access a greatly improved awareness of what precisely we are looking for. This opens with the word No. We need firstly to identify accurately what we do not want what is not useful, before we can know what we do want.



Consultation and problem solving strategies: HELLO is about openness and exchange.

What can you learn from others? The second step relates to the word Hello. We may well have to make ourselves open to new ideas and people if we are to open out our range of solutions to lifes various riddles. Is that reasonably logical? To get something fresh we will need to draw out our perspectives and look where we have not previously looked already. Novel thoughts, new associates, new situations and new things are all parts of giving a degree of awareness to something we have not formerly gone through. So we will have to at some point substitute old for new, that we have something to offer in adequate return for what we want to acquire.

Consultation and problem solving strategies: THANK YOU is about appreciating and valuing.

What do you most value about the offered options?

Among all available choices, some are more desirable than others and we give them a higher meaning, because we appreciate them more. This is explained by the primary word Thanks. Over and over again, we forget the worth of what we have, slide unconsciously into thanklessness and are likely to presume things will always be the way they have been before. It's more than simply consideration to show our appreciation for things we regard as valuable; it has a significant effect in helping us to accomplish our ends. Psychologically we are pulled to what we convey gratitude for, and yet it's equally valid to say that we can to attract them to us too. We increase magnetism when we say Thanks and therefore, in doing this, we effortlessly bring things towards us.

Consultation and problem solving strategies: GOODBYE is about realization, decision, completion, and moving on.

Whichever way you go, from now on life has changed and will be forever different. Goodbye is one of the seven primary words and relates to a course of development that has four stages. They are: realization, decision, completion and moving on. Goodbye is being said to a possible stage of change, and so could be understood basically as total refutation of a viable path of action that we had been moving towards and in future will not follow. It is a crossroad point in our pick of possible futures. Goodbye is different from No in that it suggests that we have had involvement already, which now needs to end contrasted with No's refusal to become involved in the first place. Sincere decisions cut the past away completely and that penetration forms an opportunity that otherwise does not materialize.

Consultation and problem solving strategies: PLEASE is about intention and cooperation.

How do you cooperate to manifest your dreams? The future develops according to the things considered normal of what has gone before unless we take control of it and bend it to our will. This calls for to have a vision of how we want it to be; this vision has to be very clear, particular and positive transformed into intention. They differ don't they - vision and intention? The first is to some extent unreal and the second is much more centered and conscious. For a vision to become real there must be support. . Nothing can be completed without acquiring the aid of others - this takes skillfulness, doubtless influence, , even stimulation. It is not always obligatory to offer something such as money or money's worth.

Consultation and problem solving strategies: SORRY is about responsibility, remorse, repair and release.

Do you need to take responsibility and feel genuine remorse for your part in any conflicts and tensions that exist, which underlie the issue? Sorry, the sixth word, is best seen as repairing harm done whenever we've been unsympathetic or heedless to the needs or wants of someone else. The best idea is to make sure we prevent the need to say it by being considerate in advance. Why on earth should we? Well it's because anyone we upset may well act against our better purposes and lessen our odds of achievement of our goals, so it is simply more reasonable to be concerned about others as well as ourselves. It is all about being responsible, having some feelings towards someone whom we've upset and making recompense when we've slipped up. Only then is it feasible to prevent or patch up resentment and release the everlasting unpleasantness that otherwise would develop and continually irritate.

Consultation and problem solving strategies: YES is about accepting and surrender.

Not every path is workable, that's the whole point of being creative...find a way that works for all concerned. The last point of our 7 Words structure relates with acceptance; there are circumstances when we simply have to admit what we cannot change. The word is Yes. It would be fine wouldn't it if we were able to make the world exactly the way we envision it - but in fact we can't. We always need to tolerate what comes, and to take what is not exactly what we asked for.

The best habit is to place reliance on the fact that everything sooner or later turns around to our advantage, that the modifications to our plans are all improvements when comprehended in the perspective of the longer term. For sure it's not easy to see it when we are still close and attached to our desires of course not! Yet hold your horses and you'll see that the unanticipated occurrences, the surprises and setbacks are actually the best bits camouflaged as trouble.