Taking care of the elderly is something that we need to plan for because it is something that takes resources and money to cater for. Nobody likes to think about it because it always something that is so far away and there always seems like there is plenty of time to put plans in place. However what happens to most of us is that time creeps up with us and very often we have no plans and rely on the government to take care of us. In some ways that should be fine after all the taxes we have paid there should be some level of care for us when we get older.

There is a case to be made for taking control of our own destiny, at least to some degree. One should have a good pension first of all in order to have a means to make a contribution to being taken care of. Whatever happens to us in our later years we will end up in a nursing home, being cared for by loved ones or using some kind of home care system? The point is they all cost money and we should have something in our personal assets to help pay for our care.

I believe that home care is the best form of care if it can be managed. There are a lot of things to consider before deciding whether a nursing home or whether or not homecare is more suitable, however if your general health is manageable home care it is the best for you if you have the support of your family or friends.

Benefits of staying at home;

• Still part of the family on a daily basis.

• Better able to have a sense of purpose if you can help out in a

small way.

• Familiar surroundings.

• Lest chance of infection.

• Maintaining a network of family and friends.

• More choice of what to do.

• More cost effective.

Benefits of a nursing home;

• Access to better medical health.

• Better support for rehabilitation treatment.

• Closer monitoring by health professionals.

• Purpose built facilities to cater for the elderly.

• More access to wheelchairs, walking frames, better toilet

facilities etc.

As you can see there are a lot of issues to consider before you make your decision and often it's not your decision it's a family decision, as it can be a huge undertaking for a family to take on the care of an elderly person even with the support of home care organisation. The easy option is sometimes to send the elderly person into a nursing home and this reduces the burden on the family but increases the burden on the state and I think if we are fair and reasonable about it we can't expect the state to take care of all our problems. The elderly can be the forgotten group having outlived their usefulness but you have ask yourself two things, where you be without them and what would you like to happen to you when you get old?