It is every man's desire to meet a great girl and get to date her. What dictates who is a great girl? What is the yard stick? It is not always that a straight forward girl is a great girl. What clicks in your mind when you think of the word great? I trust my understanding that, it is just an emphasis of the word good. Please agree with me that not all that glitters is gold! On the other hand, gold is a refined polished product of not so good looking ore. You should be well informed to be able to spot a great girl and keep her interested. Exactly where do you meet a great girl? Great girls are everywhere but life circumstances and surroundings sometimes change all that is good in us. It is unfair that being good does not always pay. As a result some just get tired of being good and have no choice but to test how the waters tastes upstream. They say that every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.



When looking for greatness, i advice you not to dwell on the present state of affairs. To meet a great girl, get wiser and carefully analyze the physical nature of the girl in question. She might contain more than meets the eye. Much of the behavior might be acquired or adapted as a survival tactic. I have had friends who have been bar attendants, hookers, thieves but i know them. They have hearts of gold but sometimes they have been forced to be mischievous to rescue a situation. These are great girls and i can confess that they have the ability to date and give their all to a relationship. Overwhelming love and a little understanding is all they need to review their being. It would be rude of you to just disregard a girl on the basis of what she does.

I used to think that great girls are only found in churches and other places of worship. Now i can only wonder at my ignorance and naivety. Guys have the same mentality too. So guys do not even dare smile, i do really sympathize with you. I am here to save you from leaving on a mistake. It is the worst life you can live. I know of a brother who joined a church spotted a girl within a month started dating and after a short while they tied the knot. You guessed it right, the marriage was very hot and the lyrics recorded were very sweet. It was a hasty arrangement which invited misery. Now i have to talk to my brother to convince him it is not about the church it is him and the "great girl". He should not blame God or the church since his mission in church was completely different. He wanted to meet a great girl in the 'right places". He ended up with a hypocrite while great girls were all around him. Open your eyes brothers, see wide and far. She might be the girl who serves a drink at your local pub. The inside beauty is what counts.