Nothing worthwhile in this world is achieved without motivation. Some of us are strongly motivated while others are just drifting away in life. Again, there are people who have been motivated right from their childhood whereas others got motivated at a much later stage. So whatever category you may belong to, if you are not motivated as yet towards anything, you just happen to exist but unable to live. In order to live rather than just surviving you must have a quality of liveliness that comes from positive motivation.
Now the question arises: how to be a motivated person? How to possess motivation in the right direction? Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) has got the answer. The science or art of NLP centers on a pivotal truth that the solution to man's problems lies in a fundamental change in human mind and, ironically enough, it is the mind that is capable of effecting this change.
NLP aims at effecting behavioral change or increasing behavioral choice through the manipulation of personal state. This manipulation takes place either by carrying out a dialog with oneself or by allowing a professional NLP trainer to talk to us and work on us.
Everyone, whether normal or abnormal, young or old, a common man in the street or a great scientist, can be motivated with the help of NLP. In addition to being an instrument for motivating normal healthy people NLP can be used for individual psychotherapy. NLP teaches both individuals and groups how to fulfill their maximum potential and achieve great success. NLP involves a variety of communication and persuasion skills. Essentially, it uses self-hypnosis to motivate and change oneself. NLP motivates and enables you to transform all aspects of your life by bringing about a qualitative change in your relationships with both friends and foes. It adds to your sense of self-esteem that is indispensable for success in life.
Mechanism of NLP: The mechanism of NLP is self-talk. It is like having a dialog with oneself. This dialog is not some kind of soliloquy but a conscious monologue aimed at self-persuasion. This self-talk goes on when you are alone as much as when you are interacting with others. NLP helps you listen to others as well as listen to the stream of thoughts in your mind. It helps you consciously discard and filter out the negative strain in thought and suggest to yourself the positive antidote thought to counteract the effect of the negative thoughts. By carrying out a constant conscious talk with yourself you enlighten and illuminate the dark recesses of your mind. You are able to deal with and dispel the root cause of ignorance and move towards self-awareness and self-knowledge. This helps you have greater confidence in your actions, convictions and competencies.
Miracle of NLP: In order to derive full benefits of this phenomenon of self-talk it is important to carry out a set of positive thoughts in the right direction. A wrong set of thoughts can lead you in a totally different direction bringing disastrous consequences. Ask yourself consciously what is holding you back from accomplishing what you want to accomplish in life. What are your stumbling blocks? Through practicing self-talk over a period of time you would be able to analyze and diagnose your psychological malady. You would discover that the time has come to believe in yourself in spite of all your shortcomings. This realization would convert your weaknesses in to strengths by constantly repeating the positive thoughts affirming your positive qualities and competencies. In the end it will all leave you an enlightened being that is at perfect peace with himself as well as others and can live in this world sanely without any conflicts.
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The backward spin was developed (as far as the author is aware) by Richard Bandler, one of the founders of Neuro Linguistic Programming. It is part of his new set of techniques called Neuro-Hypnotic Repatterning or NHR (Trade Marked Bandler).
I use it extensively in my hypnosis practice at the Center for Integrative Hypnosis, in New York, NY, particularly with clients who are in a quite intense negative state when they enter my office, or clients who demonstrate the appropriate kinesthetic sub-modalities (as described below).It is one of my favorite ways of trance forming fears of all kinds.
Jane Experiences the Pattern
So let's get on to the pattern. Jane is my hypnosis client. She entered my office one day in a negative state. She had come to see me as a hypnotist, so was expecting trance work, however for her own benefit I wanted to have her at least moderately relaxed before we began any formal trance! I asked what was the matter and she began to relate the terrible day she had had, and how bad she felt, while unconsciously circling her hand in front of her.
The exchange then went something like this:
?Jane: I've had this terrible day, and I really feel bad [speaking fast
?and circling her hand in front of her, her face looking strained]
?Me: So you've had a terrible day, and you feel bad [matching her voice
?and hand movement]
?Jane: Yes that's right! [continuing her hand circle]
?Me: So now what I want you to do, is to move that feeling outside
?yourself [I move my hand further from my body, demonstrating to her
?what I wanted her to do]
?Jane: Huh [looking a little unsure, but moving her hand further away
?from herself]
?Me: Now, reverse the spin [I begin to move my hand, circling
?in the opposite direction]
?Jane: What!? [matching my lead by reversing the direction of the circle]
?Me: That's right,in the opposite way, now move it back inside and notice how it's different
?now [moving my hand, still circling, close to my body]
?Jane: Oh, what just happened?[the strain leaving her face completely]
?Me: Now that we messed with the way your mind and body had recorded that feeling you had, let's go even further, so you can feel even better, now, as you're spinning that feeling in the opposite direction, I want you to think of a time you laughed out loud, something you found irresistible funny [Jane starts to smile]
?Me: That's right, feel that laughter and imagine putting that into the spin [Jane starts laughing, head nodding]
?Jane: wow! that's funny
?Me; that's right, and as you feel that good feeling, notice how different you feel when you try to think about that negative state you had..[Jane continues to smile, shaking her head in disbelief]
?Jane: I can't seem to get it back, it's like it doesn't matter anymore..wow..
By giving Jane control over the feeling, dissociating her, and turning the feeling into the ?opposite?, her state changed completely, and she learned a new way to change unwanted feelings. We were then able to complete a useful hypnosis session.
The Pattern
Here is the pattern:
?Pick an issue you want to work through
?Notice how it feels when you step into that feeling
?Notice which way the feeling spins. Note that all kinesthetic feelings
?move, and ultimately return to their starting point, otherwise we would
?not be able to feel them. Some move clockwise, some anticlockwise, some
?horizontal, some vertical, don't worry exactly how the spin is. If you
?cannot initially locate the movement, exaggerate the feeling until you
?notice some movement, not increase the size of the spin until you can
?feel it clearly. There may be some temporary discomfort (after all this
?is a negative feeling) but we will soon bring it under control! If you
?wish you can move your hand in a circle to fix the spin in your mind.
?Now imagine the spin is moving outside your body, still spinning the
?same way but now outside you.
?Now reverse the spin (and the movement of your hand if you chose to
?move your hand in a circle), still outside yourself.
?Now move the spin back inside your body, now rotating in this opposite
?direction. Notice how it is different. Now, think of something funny and you literally start to change the chemicals and hormones coursing through your body (laughter does that)
?If you wish imagine adding color, or sparkles, or other elements to the
?new spin to make it feel even better.
We teach this and other techniques during our neurolinguistic programming and hypnosis trainings in New York. We also offer certified hypnosis trainings for National Guild of Hypnotists NGH.
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