My fiance and I just broke up, and I need to know if this was the right thing to do or not. I love him more than anything else in the whole world. We were planning on being married in April. I just felt like he put himself above me in his priorities. He would make plans with me and then go play golf instead, or he would simply forget to call because something more important came up. I love him and miss him very much, but I feel like maybe it's best for us to be apart until he can change this selfish aspect of his personality. Should I be patient and stick it out or move on? Nicole
"Greetings and blessings to you precious one. To say that this person has a tendency to be selfish and to have the idea that you can change his personality, or that he can, is perhaps not very realistic. What is more realistic in making a lifetime commitment to someone is to make a commitment to who that person is in their entirety, to accept the things about them that you cannot change, and even different than that, to accept everything about them as potentially something that can never be changed, that who you know and see before you now is the person you will spend everyday of your life with. It is important to marry who is standing in front of you today and to not marry them for who you think they will become or to not marry them for who you are afraid they might turn into. It is the one in front of you who is real and who you would be spending your days with.
"If you cannot live with the selfishness of this person now, it may only be magnified over days, weeks, months, or years in a marriage. Can you imagine yourself in this relationship with these tendencies multiplying over time? Or can you see yourself making peace with this and not having this person's selfishness impact you? Are you strong enough to not be affected by this person's selfishness? Or would you rather make a lifetime commitment to someone who does not have selfish tendencies? If this person is selfish with you, what will they be like with your family, your children, or over a lifetime?
"This is an opportunity for you to do some soul-searching. If you experience this person as selfish, in what ways does his selfishness make you uncomfortable because you are selfish? What kinds of things about yourself would you like to change? What types of things about you would you like to experience differently? In what ways would you like to be different in a relationship? It is important for you to focus on you and to focus less on this person, their flaws, and the changes that they should make. Take this time to focus on you. What shifts can you make so that you like you better? In doing so, you will come to like yourself in such a way that you will attract and keep someone who equally likes themselves and who is equally committed to knowing themselves and working toward being the best person they can be.
"Have faith that this process is one that is serving you in every way. Blessings to you precious one. Amen."
On Doing The Right Thing
Write Articles
By uploading new articles to your affiliate website, you are creating fresh content. This means that search engine spiders will visit and see that you have original content that is not duplication from another website. Besides bringing in new visitors, writing articles helps you to have repeat traffic. People will keep coming back to your website if they like the information that you post regularly.
Article Directories and Ezines
When you have written some articles, you can rewrite them so that they are different from the ones on your website or you could pay to have someone write new articles that you can submit to ezines and articles directories. The reason for posting to these places is that you are allowed to place your information and website link. When people read your articles, many will click to your webpage because generally the article is something to similar to what the affiliate site category is. This is another way to have one way links to your affiliate pages.
Post In Forums
If you participate in forums, you can check the rules to see what they say about signatures. A signature is the space below the messages typed in forums posts. Many users will have a logo or picture and others will place a link to an affiliate, website or their personal blogs. Due to the fact that many have spammed forums with affiliate links, a lot of them have rules against placing those links in your signature.
That is why having a webpage for you affiliates is a great idea. If you have a website with articles and content, you will likely be allowed to place the link. Allows check the rules because you will be banned in most cases if you break them.
Pay for Advertisement
You can receive traffic by paying for it in a few different ways. Just be certain that you understand that paying for traffic is no guarantee that you will actually receive it. Using a Pay Per Click (PPC) program for instance can end up costing you a lot of money in a short amount of time. Every time someone clicks on your link, you will have to pay. Malicious webmasters began to click on their competitors links repeatedly to drive up their cost of business.
Another problem is that if you bypass the PPC and instead go with a company that sells traffic by the hundreds or thousands, you have no idea where this traffic is coming from or if it's even real. You can waste a lot of money if the traffic is being made by a bot or if the company is sending you traffic from Iceland when the product is only available to Europe or the United States.
Some people also pay for traffic by paying popular websites to allow them to place a banner or link back to their site. Your ad is usually left in place for a prepaid amount of time like a week or a month. This can be a great idea because you're not limited to pay by the amount of visitors.
Create A Newsletter
You can increase your website traffic and get new or repeat visitors by offering a newsletter. Unlike your website, a newsletter is sent to visitors at your site who decided to signup to receive it via email. You can then pay to have someone write interesting articles, you can keep your visitors up to date with your affiliate sales, and interesting news or you can send articles from free article directories because you won't be penalized by the search engines.
Submit To Search Engines
Even though search engines spiders come to new sites to crawl it and add it to the site, this does not always happen. You should add your website to the major search engines yourself, after it has been created and has a bit of information. You don't want to go around submitting a website that has one page with the words under construction.
Don't fall for the search engine submission tricks. If you do a search, you will find that many websites are claiming that they will submit your page to hundreds, sometimes thousands of search engines. The truth is that there are a few major search engines, and the others tend to get their information from those larger ones. Submitting your website a thousand times is absolutely unnecessary.
Exchange Links
Another great way to get traffic is to exchange links with websites that are similar in category to your own. This can sometimes feel like you are sharing with the enemy, your competitors, but your visitors will find your competitors the same way you did, if they really wanted to. By exchanging links and even getting one way links, will also help to boost your website in the search engine rankings.
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