People always have stereotypes about other nations. There are certain stereotypes (as well as prejudices) about the French, especially about the most refined and even “spoilt" French – the Parisians. Let’s have a closer look at the capital citizens and try to understand their character and their way of life.
In fact, the opinion about the spoilt Parisians appeared due to the fact that they are good judges of life: they like good things, enjoy meeting with friends and colleagues in cafes, love to go to nice restaurants, regularly visit cinemas and keep up with the latest theatre opening nights. And of course they can’t imagine their life without good shopping.
Some people say the French are reserved and even haughty. But the appearances are deceitful. In fact, the Parisians are nice and friendly. Just smile to them and say “bonjour"- you’ll see how amiable they can be. The French are real patriots, they deeply respect their language, culture and traditions. So if you will put in some French words while talking to the natives you’ll meet with real cordiality. Don’t be embarrassed because of your accent – they will find it sweet and charming.
The French greet each other with four kisses on the cheek. It is a sign of friendship. But it is possible only among close friends. If you don’t want to look excessively familiar, just shake hands when greeting or thanking somebody (e.g. a shopkeeper if he or she was particularly considerate).
Another peculiarity of the French is complete disregard to traffic rules. Pedestrians should be very careful when crossing the street: it’s necessary to watch out for cars, motorbikes, scooters and even rollerbladers, as the average Parisian tend not to take road safety seriously. Look both ways before crossing the road, and make sure you respect, unlike some drivers, the zebra crossings and traffic lights. Be careful if you drive too. The French often cross the road at last second, so don’t go too fast.
The French can’t be called workaholics, spare time is very important for them. Many shops are closed at Sunday. The majority of them are open from 9am to 7pm, Monday to Saturday. Some smaller shops may close over lunchtime between midday and 2pm, or all day on Monday. Sundays and public holidays are the usual closing days, although there are some exceptions... During the week, the department stores all have one late-night opening day, known as a “nocturne" until 9pm. Supermarkets are open at different times depending on the neighbourhood, every day except Sunday, until 8, 9 or 10pm.
The French are considered to be great gourmets. Well, that’s not just a stereotype. The very expression haute cuisine comes from France. The greatest choice is that of cheeses and wines. The French say there’s 365 kinds of cheese in the country, just like the days in the year. In fact there’s much more. Interesting to note that an average Frenchman eats about 30 kg of cheese per year. The French adore cheese. There’s even a monument to the cheese inventor.
The other thing is that the people are very trendy. They always keep up with the latest fashion and perfume tendencies. Parisians are by right considered to be trendsetters.
Don’t hesitate to come to the country and get acquainted with the French!
Some Men See Things As They Are And Say Why
We all see things differently, we all have our own unique perspective of the world and put completely different meanings from one another, to everything that happens around us, to conversations that we have, to things we pick up in the news etc. In NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) terms, 'the map is not the territory'. None of us think about any situation in exactly the same way. This is because we all have our own unique values, beliefs and needs.
The iceberg, used in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, represents how our results are driven by our behaviours which are derived from our emotions which are created by our thoughts. Therefore what we achieve is driven by what we think.
Basically this means that in order to change someone's results, we need to dive beneath the surface and change the way they think. Most managers tend to float on the surface and concentrate on the performance itself. This usually results in a directive or advisory approach. When you understand how the brain works then you will understand why these traditional approaches are ineffective long term.
When you understand that everybody has a different perspective of the world, then it would follow that what is right for one person isn't necessarily right for another. Think about this the next time you want to offer your advice to somebody. Yes it may be good advice for you, and it may be what you would do in that situation, but is it right for them?
Assignment
Start taking note of conversations over the next month, conversations that you have at home or work or with friends, but also other peoples conversations (honestly, you are not being nosey, you just have a genuine interest in people!)
Note how often people are not always talking about the same thing even though they think they are. Listen to how people's opinions differ. Notice how people get frustrated when they can't get their point across or the other person doesn't quite get it. How often do people give, a 'whatever' answer and just quit trying to explain? How often do people give their advice only to have it shrugged off? How often do you receive advice that falls on deaf ears? You will start to smile to yourself as you notice different points of view on the same subject, or different meanings assigned to the same conversation.
Take your time to do this assignment as it will really help you understand the concept of The Silent Motivator System.
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