After a little time, you pick the girl or girls you would like to meet. When you are certain about the girl you want to meet, you are ready to make your move. Don't wait too long. If you're like me, the longer you wait, the more reasons you will convince yourself with that it's not a good idea.



You walk up to the girl you want to meet and you say, "May I borrow a pencil?". Usually every girl has a pencil or a pen. If she does not, or if she ignores you then ask the bartender for a pencil. If the bartender does not have a pen or pencil, always have one on you and walk up to some one and pretend you borrowed it.

Your only intention is to get a pen or pencil with her attention on it. Now go back to your table and don't pay the slightest attention to her. For the moment, she will be aware that you're in the room. You write a short note to her. I assume you can use a small piece of notebook paper or even a napkin. Carry one of those small spiral notebooks around.

This should become a habit, how are you going to write down all the phone numbers of women you meet if you don't have some paper?

Write something like the following:

Did you know that I have been sitting here wondering how I could meet you? If you have any suggestions as to how I could meet you without appearing bold, or if I should even try to meet you, please check one of the below. Yes... No... Go to hell... try this... Signed...

You give her the note and the pen or pencil and let her decide what to do. Why will this work? Because as I told you before, to meet a lot of women you must be unique and different and not common. You must admit that this is not a common method. She will be flattered that you went to so much trouble just to try to meet her.

You were humorous in your note and women love a guy with a sense of humor. You gave her the chance of either inviting you to join her or tell you to go to hell. This is a choice every woman must have. You have not pushed yourself on her and you have not put her in an awkward situation. I predict that she will want to meet you because you are not common.

If this is different than anything you ever tried before, change your attitude and from this day forward, try all different approaches to meeting women. You will be different from most men, and this is what women are looking for.