Secret #1 - Use Your Greatest Strength



I find that most men can classify their attributes into three different compartments. There's going to be some things that are working against them, some things that are neutral, and at least one thing that is really works. Chances are you already know what the thing that is really working for you is. It would be the thing that people always notice and complement you on. If you aren't sure what your greatest strength is, try asking a close friend. They'll probably be able to point you in the right direction.

Once you know exactly what your greatest strength is, use it! You want to use your strength from the first moment that you spot the beautiful woman you have your eye on. If your strength is the way you look, the make sure you show up looking great. If it's your funny personality, let it shine from the moment you introduce yourself. If your strength is in the area of your financial stability, buy her a drink and ask her when she'll join you at (insert expensive restaurant name here) for an incredible meal. What you never want to do is save your greatest strength for the 'right' moment. If you wait, someone else may come along and use their greatest strength on the woman you're eyeing.

Secret #2 - Pull Out All the Stops

While interviewing Michael James, V.P. of development for MatchTrust.com, a popular online dating site, he suggested that, "The more ammunition a man has, the better his success ratio will be." I completely agree. It's true that you don't have to be wearing a nice watch and great clothes, or be funny and the life of the party. But as James says, "It can't hurt!" In essence, the more things you can do to make yourself stand out, the more likely you are to have a beautiful woman notice you.

Secret #3 - A Stellar Personality

If you're most known for your amazing personality, don't fret! A great personality counts more than you can even imagine! A friend of mine recently told me that he scored with a perfect ten while out in a bar the other night. When he asked the beautiful woman how he managed to get so lucky, she responded by saying, "You were the only guy with enough courage and personality to come over and talk to me." At http://www.MatchTrust.com, they've found that men who let their personalities shine in their online dating profile, get the most amount of dates. If your personality is below par, try emulating a guy that has a personality as their greatest strength.

Make the Hot Woman Yours

Use my above proven strategies and you'll find yourself dating the most beautiful women. The next time you're out on the town, spot the beautiful woman you'd like to ask out on a date, pull out all the stops and definitely use your greatest strength! And, last but not least, remember that your personality will take you further than you may be giving it credit for!