How many men have married a woman because she was the only one to give him the time of day? How many men have overlooked a womans flaws just because she would give him a chance? How man men have to live with a womans flaws because he didn't explore his options? Probably lots and lots of men.



Here is something I want you to consider: If you only date one woman, you are more likely to fall in love with her because, you have nothing else to compare her to. Your putting all your feelings on the line for her. You are investing everything you have into that one woman. That's okay only after you have taken the time to decide that she is what you want. You should becoming from a place where attractive women are in abundance.

How do you know what you want? You know what you want by meeting and dating lots of women. This allows you to learn about what you like and what you don't like.

How does it make you feel when you date a lazy woman? How does it make you feel when you date a woman with lots of ambition? How does it make you feel when your girlfriend gets fat? How does it make you feel when your girlfriend keeps herself fit? These decisions are easier to make once you have experienced these sorts of things. You can only get that experience by dating many women.

The truth is that most men don't even think about what they want in a woman. Most men look first and worry about that stuff later. By the time they start to worry about it things have gotten too far. They already have themselves committed to her. Once committed they can't let go.

Start thinking of what you want in a woman like an expensive purchase. You wouldn't just go out and buy a car would you? Of course not. You would think about what make, model, color, features, size, price, and many other things that go along with it. This same mentality needs to be used with women.

I know this sounds simple, but simple is often overlooked. Figure out what you want in woman and date lots of them. You are much more likely to meet the right one for you.