* It can lead to a revealing and interesting discussion.
* It is just good manners.
If you are lacking in the listening skills department, though, there are some things that you can start doing today to become a better listener. These ten tips will help you become a better listener and a better communicator.
1. Make and maintain eye contact. Maintaining eye contact is an indication to the speaker that you are listening, but keep it at a level that is comfortable for both you and the speaker.
2. Face the person with whom you are communicating. When someone is talking to you, you can at least face them and give them the courtesy of looking at them. This indicates to them that you are listening and it eliminates potential distractions for you.
3. Get rid of distractions. Turn off the TV, put down the book, close the door and pay full attention to your speaker. Distractions can cause you to miss vital things that are being said to you. Your concentration should be on what the speaker is saying to you and you want to give them complete attention.
4. Let the speaker know that you are listening. Nod and give verbal acknowledgments appropriately. If you nod vigorously the entire time that the speaker is talking, it will distract both of you and indicate to them that you are not really listening at all. A simple 'yes' or nod and smile may suffice.
5. Think about what the speaker is saying, not what you are going to say next. Many times it is a natural tendency to think about what you are going to say when someone else is talking. You may be trying to form your comeback to what they are saying. In doing so you will most certainly miss some vital information if you aren't really listening.
6. Do not interrupt. You should not interrupt for several reasons. Firstly, you may be missing part of what is being said when you interupt. Secondly, it points out you are not really listening. Lastly, it is rude and annoying. If you have to grab a piece of paper and take notes about what is said, do it, and the address your concerns when it is your time to talk.
7. Maintain an open mind When the speaker says something that goes against your beliefs, your mind may want to scream in protest, but try to keep an open mind and listen to their defense and argument. You just might learn something.
8. Ask questions to make sure that you understand. Ask questions to clarify what is being said. This way you can make sure that you understand what the speaker is saying.
9. Keep your body language neutral. Crossing your arms, putting your hands on your hips and turning away from the speaker are all indications that you are not listening, thus hindering your own ability to listen effectively. Keep your arms down at your sides and lean your body slightly in toward the speaker. Doing so increases your ability to listen and shows the speaker that you are listening and paying attention.
10. Realize that sometimes just listening is enough. Sometimes people just want to be heard without any response. Remember that it is OK to just listen from time to time.
To Improve Listening Skills
With everything in life, it is important for us to continue growing and learning. The problem however is that individuals often come up with all sorts of excuses and find themselves in a rut. Being unable to grow further and improve, individuals become unhappy and sadly grow comfortable in unhappiness, making it the norm rather than the exemption.
This need not be the case however because constant learning and personal improvement is available to those who want it. While there are many avenues that can be taken to achieve the path to personal progress, further and continuing education can help one personally as well as professionally. Learn more and progress in your career and reap the benefits of change and improvement.
For individuals who may not have the time or the budget to enroll in a school to continue traditional learning, audiobooks may be the answer.
Audiobooks are not just for kids. Neither is it exclusively for audio versions of popular fiction paperbacks. Many educational books have also been translated into audio so that individuals can reap the benefits of these wonderful educational books in audio format. Furthermore, audiobooks are no longer just stored on cassettes.
Now, audiobooks come in compact discs or CDs, as well as in digital file formats like MP3 which allows one to listen to audiobooks through personal portable MP3 players that have features friendly towards audiobook files. With all these advancements, one can enjoy and audiobook, anywhere and anytime.
The next step is finding the right audibook for the purpose that you want. Sometimes, learning a foreign language will do the trick. If you work for a multi national company and would like to try out being an expatriate and work in your company's foreign office, pop a foreign language book in your iPod and learn a new tongue while in the commute, breaks in your office or during your gym routine.
You'll be speaking a foreign language soon and you can use this new skill to make you more competitive in your career. At the very least, you can finally have the excuse to visit that far away exotic country you've always wanted to travel to so you can practice your new language proficiency.
Aside from foreign languages, you can also get audiobooks on special seminars and courses that can help you improve your skills in your chosen field. If time and budget does not permit you to attend a seminar or course that you think will help you greatly improve your skills and help boost your career, then make inquiries from the organizers on the availability of audiobooks that you can purchase instead of attending the actual workshop. While it may not be take the place of actually being there, an audiobook version remains to be a good and feasible alternative.
Sometimes, we just find ourselves in a rut and cannot get out. Sometimes, we need a little help. This is why self-help books continue to be popular throughout the years. Self-help authors realize that there are many individuals out there who may be experiencing certain issues and cannot find relief through friends and colleagues.
Sometimes, our attitudes can make a world of difference in our personal and professional life and many wonderful books on this topic have been translated in to audiobooks so that we can easily listen to them without having to invest time that we don't have into reading.
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