If you do not feel sexy, you will never succeed the art of seducing men. And sexiness is not a size or a certain "look". It is an attitude. You have to get to a point where you can look in the mirror and state, "I am hot! I deserve to be treated well!" It will be tough to convince someone else that you are seductive or sexy until you feel worthy of a guy's attention.
Be Smart
The days of the the dumb "blonde" getting all the men have long gone. Today's sexy gal is cultured, smart, and witty. Remember that how to seduce men includes "seducing" their brains as well as their brawn!
Be Unpredictable
It is time to surprise your man and make him wonder, "Is she really the same girl I have been dating?" If you have never worn fishnets, put some on the next time both of you go out for a drink. Or wear leopard-print teddies instead of the ho-hum pajamas with the holes in them. Each time you step outside your "comfort zone" and try something new, you will force your fellow to respond in a new way, too. Who knows what the night could bring if you decide to answer the door sans clothing?
Be Coy
Yeah, guys have urge to go to strip clubs. But real seduction is not about nudity or pole dancing. It is about being "unattainable." For example, the next time you are out to dinner with your dude, slip off your shoes and play with his thighs. He will not be able to do anything about his physical urges, and you will appear to be the most seductive female he has ever encountered.
Take Charge
Men often like to be in control of a relationship or scenario, but they can feel wildly seduced if you suddenly turn the tables on them and become the domineering seductress. For instance, the moment your guy opens the door, you can start telling him exactly what both of you are going to do. Have a plan and stick to it. He will be drooling before long, totally fascinated by your "take charge" attitude.
Have Fun
Finally, if you want to know how to seduce men, you have to be willing to have fun. Enjoy yourself! Being a sultry miss should be a cool experience, not one you will dread. Allow yourself to play and be a bit silly; guys like gals who can "let go" once in a while.
Now, go out there and start seducing some men (or the special someone you find eye-catching) right now!
