This article is about attracting the right partner, but not in the sense that you were probably expecting. When trying to attract the right partner we spend so much time, money, energy, and effort on our boobs, our bellies, and our butts, but not on our brains, and it is our brain that controls all aspects of our lives.

I'll tell you the secrets?

It is only in the proper use of your brain will you attract the perfect partner for you. It is not how you look, how much money you have, or how lonely you are. It is not because all the good men or women are taken. They are not. It has nothing to do with how you look. Too many single people are still making excuses and looking for love in places that continue to lead to disappointment.

Are you aware of the Law of Attraction?

I learned about the Law of Attraction as a child and have been fascinated by it since then. I've studied it for over 30 years and I love it! It is my passion. I learned from the best. My mother was a master in the human potential movement and taught me how to use the Law of Attraction to get what I wanted. I want to teach you how to get what you want.

The Law of Attraction is the most powerful law in the universe. It works just like a magnet. Our thoughts are energy and we attract and are attracted to the people who are in harmony with what we focus our attention on, regardless of whether that person is good for us or bad for us.

People wonder why they continue to attract the same kind of negative person repeatedly. The reason is they are consciously, or unconsciously, thinking about that kind of person, and doing things specifically that will attract them.

Even though you might be saying""this is not the kind of person I want, or I will never allow someone like that into my life again. When you speak the words, especially aloud, you give more power to what you "don't want"' and you continue to attract it.

On an unconscious level, it is the kind of person you want, or you would not attract it. There is something inside of you that still wants whatever this type of person gives you. There is a mechanism in your brain that searches out into the environment to attract what your mind believes you want. It never fails. The good news is, the minute you change your focus and keep your thoughts on the type of person you want to attract; you will begin the process of attracting it.

And it is a process so don't expect the results to happen overnight. What you experience in your relationships now is the result of your past programming, or thinking and behaving in a certain way that attracted what you didn't want.

It is a hard concept to understand, but once you do, it will change your life forever. You don't have to understand it, just know and believe that it works, because it is working whether you believe it or not. You don't understand electricity but you use it every day.

If you have read about the Law of Attraction and watched films like The Secret and you're still skeptical, just ask yourself "what if this stuff really does work"'? Just start using it. What can it hurt?

So, how do you attract the right partner using the Law of Attraction?

Here are the basic steps:

Have a Written Goal

Visualize Yourself With Your New Partner

Create A Vision Board

Create Powerful Affirmations

Ignite Your Passion

BE The Right Partner

Take Action

Look for Part Two of this article for the details on each of these steps to attracting the right partner using the Law of Attraction.

Aim High!

Copyright (c) 2007 LaVera J. Gaston