If you are in love then you need ways to express your love to the other person. The expression of love should be such that you should be able to surprise the other person every time. It is the novelty of the idea which will bring something new into the relationship and inject some freshness into the relationship.

Now the expression of love can depend on the number of factors. For example if you are expressing your love to your girl friend for the first time then it has to something very special and very unique. That should give her a feeling she has never experienced before. You need to be very creative to express your love for her. Make sure that you can reflect the correct sentiments that you are feeling towards her. Girls usually like all things very romantic and in a make believe world so try a very special theme based setting for her.

If you are in a marriage and are trying to express your love to your wife then you definitely be very different as she knows almost all about you by now. Express your love to her by exposing her to a side she has rarely known about you. For example make sure that you change your way of dressing or hairstyle. This will give her something new and will surely appreciate the effort that you have taken to make her happy and feel wanted.

The other point to know is that it is generally females who would want to see from their male counterparts some expression of love. In general males are a lot less sensitive and hence do not place that much emphasis or importance on the expression of love.

That said if you are a female you should ignore the males but yes it takes a lot less effort to make your guy happy. Males generally would like to have their girlfriend or wife to be understanding of their moods. Men also want that the women they love should look beautiful and smart all the time. So make sure that you be dressed immaculately when you meet your guy.

Also another important thing to note is that in some relationships it is not the words that matter but the actions. So make sure that you understand the nature of the other person and act accordingly. Never try to emulate your best friend for what he did on the Valentine's Day for his girl friend. Your girl friend or fiance may not even like the idea of that. That is what is true love all about. It is about knowing in advance how your partner will feel in a given situation.