?To love is to suffer.

To avoid suffering, one must not love; but then one suffers from not loving.

Therefore, to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer, to suffer is to suffer.

To be happy is to love; to be happy then is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy; therefore to be unhappy one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness.

I hope you're getting this down.?

Love and relationships are truly one of the most paradoxical aspects of being human. For it is in love that we find the greatest of strengths and the deepest of sorrows. Love can seem to be so fleeting and unachievable yet it remains well within our reach if we only learn how to embrace it's power. To experience true love, we must be willing to open ourselves up and sacrifice part of our heart and part of our soul. We must be willing to give ourselves freely, and we must be willing to suffer. It is only when we expose our inner selves to the white hot flame of rejection, then love can burn so brightly as to join two souls, melding the two into one, creating a bond that joins forever. It is from this bond that we draw eternal strength and power ever lasting. It is in this thing that we call love, that we find the means to achieve greatness, both in ourselves and in our lives.

Love is the best emotion that we share. Moreover it is already time to celebrate in a grand way, since Valentines Day is just round the corner. One of the most romantic ideas is a special candle light dinner accompanied with soft music and dim lights. There has to be lots more fun, thrill and romance on this day, what say? A perfect valentine day is incomplete without watching a Valentines movie that has the capability to boost up the mood for romance.

The reservoir of Valentine's Day romantic movies is large enough and thus consists of multiple options to choose from. To name a few top romantic valentine day movies we have Titanic, Sleepless In Seattle, Romeo And Juliet, City Of Angels, Love Story, Sixteen Candles, Pretty Woman, and Endless Love etc.

To rise the cheerful moments of laughter and joy, one should choose some real funny romantic comedy films like 20 Dates, About Last Night, Breakfast at Tiffany's, An American in Paris & Butterflies Are Free.

In case for some adventure, then the perfect kind of film would be the action-packed ones like Back Draft, Crimson Tide, Mask Of Zorro, Point Break, & Batman Forever.

If you like mystery stuff then you can go in for one or more of these thriller valentine movies: Dead Again, Spellbound, Jaws, The Hand that Rocks the Cradle and Psycho.

If drama is your choice, then films like Bed Of Roses, Great Expectations, About Last Night, Just the Way You Are, Happy Together and When Harry Met Sally would give you the perfect taste.

?A happy home is one in which each spouse grants the possibility that the other may be right, though neither believes it.? For those who are happily married, and who wish to celebrate this special day with their kids, can catch on a video CD of Beauty and the Beast, or Heaven Can Wait. Other good options are Night Tide, Like Water for Chocolate & Celestial Clockwork.

By now you must have decided which movie you would be watching with your sweetheart. But just do not forget wine because it acts as a stimulator in creating the atmosphere for lovebirds to go crazy. So, this valentine day, try out these ideas and see the effects. Trust me it will spice up your love life.