Start by dressing the part. Show off your favorite parts of your body in a sexy mini-dress or bustier, stockings and heels. Go glamorous and try a hot new makeup look and hairstyle. If you need to practice, check yourself out in the mirror and watch the way your body moves to make sure you are achieving the look you want.

Next, prepare the surroundings. Play some mood music, whether that be something fast like hip-hop or slow like jazz, to get yourself ready. Place your man where you want him. Sit him in any chair you choose, just make sure you are both comfortable before the show begins. Dim the lights and you're ready to go. Just the fact that you are so in control will make him swoon.

One of the basic moves of an exotic lap dance is the grinding circle. You see it all the time in movies, on T.V. and in clubs. Enjoy teasing him while standing about two feet away, your feet turned out and hip-width apart. Begin to make a circle with your hips, making sure to keep your back arched, not stiff. Continue to bend your knees and come down as far as is comfortable for you. Have fun and dance as erotically as you can without leaning too far forward or losing your balance. It's all in the hips, so make sure you're grinding your little heart out.

While still facing your man, give these other hot moves a try. Catch his knee between your own and grind in a forward and backward motion on his legs. Then blow softly on his face and neck or whatever else you know turns him on. Perform a breast stroke by placing your hands on the sides of the chair. Slowly lean forward, keeping your balance, and gently caress his face into your breasts. Move in any way you like and think that he will like, too.

Even if your man is all about the breasts, it definitely doesn't hurt to show off your backside, too. It's imperative to gracefully, erotically turn around to give him a little taste of your other assets. Do it slowly and rhythmically. When your back is to your partner, you can engage in some other super sexy moves. Give him a little lap dance grind by standing between his legs and bending your knees, coming as close to the chair as possible With your back straight, grab onto your man's knees and move in a circle or whatever feels right. Rub yourself against him lightly, using his knees for support and if you can, glance over your shoulder at his face and make eye contact. Make sure you don't cause him (or yourself) any discomfort in the process.

For a grand finale, if you feel stable and strong enough, grab the back of the chair and gracefully place your knees on his thighs with care. Then, slide your knees into the open space of the chair, and slowly slide all the way down until you are kneeling in front of him. Use him to help yourself up erotically and give him a long, passionate kiss. Your exotic lap dance is complete. What happens next is up to you!