Oh, love. It is hands down the most wonderful feeling in the world. It is as universal as the universe itself, and is more phenomenal than any religion, celebrity or virus can be. We are not quite sure who invented the word 'love', but the word itself gets the feeling spot on. You don't even have to be in love to know what I'm talking about. In fact, I can choose to not talk about love and you would still know what love is or how it feels.

We all give love because somehow we all want love.

But there are some unfortunate circumstances that make you feel different about love. Especially when the person you love won't love you back. Perhaps everyone will experience the other side of love at least once or twice in their lifetime. We will hurt a lot, cry a lot, and even eat a lot, all because of the agony of love.

It should be normal for us to recover from heartache after a period of time. But there are some who refuse to wait for time to heal all wounds by resorting to an uncharacteristic solution: hypnosis. Knowing how to hypnotize someone is unusual enough, but doing it to you is a whole new challenge. However, after doing some brief research, it turns out that hypnosis does help overcome the feeling of unrequited love!

If you are currently on a state of hurtfulness, then savor your tears because you're going to bid it goodbye after doing these helpful self-hypnosis tips:

- Spend an amount of time with yourself everyday without doing anything. Let go of everything and just lie down for a short while. Release the tension you have inside you by breathing in and out to relax your mind and senses.

- Start your hypnosis tape and listen to it with an open mind. Learn to absorb and relate to everything you hear and believe what the tape tells you.

- After listening, take a little time to reflect on how you live your life as a person, and then relate it as to why you are in that situation. Then comfort yourself by literally citing your good qualities. It takes a lot of effort to know how to hypnotize someone, so try not to confuse denial with the truth.

- List all the qualities that you love from the person that gave you your heartache. Keep in mind that it's the qualities that made you love the person, not the person himself.

- Come up with a word or a phrase which you can say to help remind yourself to fight the hurtful feeling whenever you're in a state of normal consciousness. Phrases like "love will come to me" or "everybody hurts sometimes" will do the trick.

These tips are actually helpful and easy to do, and it wouldn't hurt to do it everyday until you realize how much better you're feeling. Who knew learning how to hypnotize someone can actually be fun and helpful? See, we should all learn from love. Love is kind, love is pure, and most of all, love is patient. So be patient, people.