The first thing you will have to do is make yourself look so fantastic that they will be practically falling at your feet. You should take time to groom yourself, such as getting a good haircut and making sure that your clothes fit perfectly and that the color suits you. Be sure to choose colors that would complement your complexion and clothes that would suit your body to perfection, also make sure to get the added accessories such as a good belt, watch, and shoes to suit the clothes.

After you have made yourself look good, attractive even, you should start expressing yourself in a manner so as to radiate a type of gracefulness that will make people notice when you walk into a room or walk down the street, or just plain make you stand out in the crowd. You should project yourself as someone who cares about people and what they think and hope, by listening to them and giving them a kind word of encouragement to help them go forward to achieving their goals and desires, in other words be a positive person to be around, always with a smile and a comforting word.

If you'd rather go a different route as maybe you are not the most sociable person, maybe one of the most important qualities you should develop is the ability to seem always mysterious to the other person which will keep them guessing and wanting to get to know you better. Do not make yourself readable as a book where someone can estimate your next move, try developing the silent type attitude where you keep people always guessing, this can be so exciting and girls will definitely want to approach you to find out what the secret is.

So now that you have developed all these great characteristics of mystery, confidence and gracefulness, it is time for you to make yourself available to those girls out there, so be sure that you send a positive signal that you are not taken, by not being seen with any one particular girl at parties or events you attend. You should go to parties without a partner and having a free spirit by chatting with lots of people not just a particular group of friends, including people you have just met, for who knows, one of them might be the girl of your dreams, the one that you were waiting to approach you for a very long time. Above all have fun, make new friends, and enjoy yourself.