The first thing is the nagging. You cannot make a man do anything. A lot of women will look at a man and say that they would like to change them. When you meet someone you cannot look at him or her as a project. You need to accept them for who they are. If you don't like who they are, then it is time for you to leave.

Secondly, you will find that a man will leave because of your own behaviors. If you make them feel like they are useless because you have taken on more roles in the relationship then needed. This means that you may pay for everything. Always have to drive. The control is what will make the relationship sour. You need to balance the relationship so that it is a give and take.

The give and take relationship is why healthier than a relationship that forces you to have to face everything yourself. You don't always have to pick the restaurant.

Thirdly, it's a lack of interest. The lack of interest is not in you, but that you have for them. If you don't show them the time that is needed to make them feel good about themselves, then you will only be hurting the relationship. You need to make sure that you have time everyday to call them or to see them, or even to show them you care - without pushing yourself to them.

Also, when you talk you need to allow them to talk and not just always be the listener. Like the country song goes "Sometimes I wanna talk about me". This means that you need to ask them every now and then how they feel, how their day went, ask things that are happening to them. This is one of the ways that you can show an interest, but it is also a way to allow them to feel about of the relationship.

Sometimes in a relationship you will hit a stalemate. This is where the relationship will get boring. You don't always want to do the same things or talk about the same things. You need to learn how to spice it up. This is just one of the ways that you will find that you can keep the relationship going. You will want to go to a certain restaurant for special occasions, however, any other time you need to explore other options and businesses.

You will want to make sure that you also give them some space. Men are hard creatures to understand. Sometimes they need to make some time for their buddies and you need to realize that. You can't always be with them. You can't always be calling them. In fact, if you try to be with them too much it can be borderline stalking. You will want to keep them some space. Keep in mind that distance can sometimes build a stronger relationship.

Finally, you have to allow yourself to trust them. Your paranoid behaviors will drive anyone to leave you. You need to realize that when they say they are at Mike's house then they are. If they have never given you the slightest reason not to trust them, then you will want to give them the benefit of a doubt.

Also, if you can't trust your mate then you don't belong with them. You can't have a good relationship with someone until you allow yourself to be with him. This is something that you will want to keep in mind when it comes to any relationship. You shouldn't be in a relationship that may keep you thinking that they are not faithful.

There are a lot of reasons why a guy will want to walk away. You need to be honest and trusting when it comes to a relationship and that is exactly what men expect from their mate when it comes to a healthy, long relationship.

It is very important that you think about your past behaviors when it came to failed relationships. You may not be the reason for all the pain that happens in a relationship, but you may also find that you do some common things that may start to get the ball rolling when it comes to the end of the relationship. It is helpful to evaluate what type of girlfriend you are so that you can see the common mistakes that most women make.